Category Archives: Infidelity Coaching

Can I Trust Again? Or…Too Much Damage?

This is part 2 of my transcript on trust with Nat. Her second question relates to the amount of damage and her capacity to trust and rebuild. Nat:  Part of that is, is there is a point when there’s been … Continue reading

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Trust Building: Once a Cheater always a Cheater?

I provide webinars for those who read “Break Free From the Affair,” and sometimes record the session. I want to share with you a transcript that answers a frequent question; once a cheater, always a cheater? and a closely related … Continue reading

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Speaking your “Voice” to Your Spouse – Part 2

Here are some more key points about using your personal power and speaking your voice to your spouse: You need not be loud and when you speak your voice. A quiet, calm, yet coming from within you voice, holds the … Continue reading

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Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 2

Here are 4 more self help strategies: You must get marriage counseling. Please know that I’ve had a private practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 1981. Not all marriage counseling is equal. There are inherent contradictions that … Continue reading

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Speaking Your “Voice” to Your Spouse

A core element of a healthy marriage is your capacity to express your personal power. Note, I did not say you must develop it. Your personal power is there! It may be covered at this moment. You may not believe … Continue reading

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Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 1

I’ve been part of the self help and therapeutic endeavor since 1981. I’ve served on the state board for the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. My private practice in Marriage and Family Therapy continued since that time and … Continue reading

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8 More Communication Blunders That Absolutely Destroy Intimacy

8 More communication mistakes that can destroy the intimacy in a marriage or relationship of investment. Continue reading

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How Do I Get Him to Talk?

Learn more about infidelity and types of affair, particularly the “I Can’t Say No Type of affair,” which is typically associated with someone with addictive tendencies. Continue reading

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Types of Affairs: Affair #1 – My Marriage Made Me Do It

Learn about affair type #1, or the “My Marriage Made Me Do It” type of affair. Discover which questions to ask if you are trying to pinpoint exactly which type of affair you are faced with. Continue reading

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Infidelity: Get Your Cheating Spouse to Notice Your Power by Charging Neutral

How to get your cheating spouse to notice your power by charging neutral. Continue reading

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