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1. Discovering Infidelity
Find several articles on how to cope during the first days after discovering your partner is involved in an extramarital affair. Learn how to handle the intense feelings one experiences in the following articles:
- Infidelity Discovered? 10 Ways to Calm Your Powerful Feelings
- Infidelity Discovered: Why He/She Won’t Tell Me the Truth?
- Infidelity – Day of Discovery: How to "Hold" your Feelings
- Day of Discovery: I’m a Mess! Do I Need Meds?
- Infidelity: Why the Need to Know is So Strong
2. Emotional Infidelity
Learn techniques to possibly save your marriage if your partner is having an emotional affair. Also, learn the distinctions between two seemingly similar types of emotional affairs, the "just friends" affair and the "falling in love" affair.
- Emotional Infidelity: A KEY Tactic to Save the Marriage
- Emotional Infidelity: A Love Affair or Just Friends?
3. Sexual Addiction
Are you or your partner sexually addicted? Learn how to handle an affair in which your spouse is sexually addicted. Discover signs typically exhibited by someone who is sexually addicted.
- Extramarital Affairs: When Sexual Addiction and Infidelity Meet
- Adultery as Sexual Addiction: Should You Stay Married?
- Sexually Addicted? 10 Important Questions to Ask
Discover authentic motives and reasons for spying in a relationship facing marital infidelity. Find articles that face the ethical dilemma and some practical implications of spying on a cheating spouse.
- Cheating Spouse: 7 Legitimate Motives for Spying
- Cheating Husband or Wife: 6 Keys to Know if You are Ready to Handle What You Might Find When You Spy
- Cheating Spouse: Is Spying an Invasion of Privacy?
- Infidelity: Spying is NOT Revenge
5. Trust Building/Recovery
Learn several effective strategies to rebuild a relationship scarred by the crisis of an extramarital affair. Also, discover barriers that inhibit couples recovering from infidelity to survive the extramarital affair and rebuild their marriage.
- 10 Crucial and Surprising Steps to Build Trust in a Relationship
- Infidelity Recovery for a Relationship: A HUGE Problem
- Relationship Tips: 16 Practical Dramatic Ways to Know if He/She is REALLY Changing
- Marital Infidelity Recovery: 6 Reasons NOT to "Work on the Marriage"
- Marital Infidelity: 11 Stubborn Barriers to "Making over" Your Relationship
6. Types of Extramarital Affairs
Not all extramarital affairs are alike. Learn about many different types of affairs, several of which are outlines in Dr. Huizenga’s Ebook, "Break Free From the Affair."
- Infidelity: How “My Marriage Made Me Do It” is a Cop-out
- The Revenge Affair: Characteristics of the Adulterer
- Infidelity Excuse: I Fell Out of Love…and just love being in love
- Infidelity: Difference Between a Rage and Revenge Affair
- Signs of Infidelity: My Marriage Made Me Do It
- Signs of a Cheating Spouse…and how they differ from Signs of Infidelity
- Sign of Affair: I Fell Out of Love…and just love being in love
7. Infidelity Quickies
Specific scenarios facing those in the midst of infidelity or an extramarital affair. Analysis and coaching tips by Dr. Huizenga for each scenario.
- Infidelity Quickie #1: Feels Like the Agony of the Affair will Never End
- Infidelity Quickie #2: Hanging on to the Silver Lining in infidelity
- Infidelity Quickie #3: The "Surface Stroke" is Killing Me and My Trust
- Infidelity Quickie #4: From Depression to a Future Tinged with Hope
- Infidelity Quickie #5: How Could She Do This?
- Infidelity Quickie #6: Affair Aftermath – Scrambled Puzzle
- Infidelity Quickie #7: Three Years and Counting
- Infidelity Quickie #8: Cheated Three Times – Who’s In Control?
7. General Infidelity Articles
Discover a wide variety of articles on infidelity, ranging from how to tell if your partner is cheating, to why it’s important to be physically fit when going through an extramarital affair.
- Extramarital Affairs: What Everyone Needs to Know… and what you can do to help
- 46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
- Relationship Crisis: 6 Reasons to Get Physically Fit
- Extramarital Affair: Their Sex is Not Always "Hot"