How do I cope with the pain of the affair and perhaps stop it?

Break Free From the Affair
The first e-book on infidelity written in 2003, has been used by tens of thousands to help a alleviate the pain of infidelity, determine the type of affair and create a strategy that changes of the course of the affair and the marriage.

  • Learn why you are not at fault
  • Discover the type of affair facing you
  • Determine which strategy works best
  • Discover the length of the affair and how it will end


How do I start the affair recovery?

The Infidelity 48 Hour Boot Camp
Dr. Huizenga’s 48 Hour Boot Camp gives you the begginers tools, resources, knowledge and confidence to face the affair head on. Discover what is bound ti fail. Begin using new strategies and tools to perhaps stop the affair.

  • Discover the 3 keys to Healing Your Aching Heart
  • Learn how to calm your feelings and stop what only pushes your spouse closer to the affair partner
  • Use the 70 motive checklist to discover the type of affair and what you can do


How do I control my thoughts and feelings?

The First Step in Surviving Infidelity: From Basketcase to Making Your Spouse Blink
This 138 page ebook examines the orgins of basketcaseitis, as it relates to the discovery of infidelity in your marriage. Get tips, information and new ways of thinking about infidelity that enbable your basketcaseitis to fade and be replaced by courage, hope and fearlessness.

  • You will regain your calm, confidence and poise
  • You will stop doing the 12 Unattractive, Ugly, Typical Tactics Most Use to Prolong the Affair and their Misery
  • You will feel less powerless and helpless: more empowered to act effectively


How do I begin to feel more hopeful?

Infidelity: Discovery to Recovery – 4 Predictable Stages on your Journey and Resources for Each Stage
The infidelity journey is a painful process 4 predictable stages on your journey and resources for each stage. The infidelity journey is a painful and complex process. This e-book helps face the journey of recovery thoughtfully and with insight that hastens the healing process.

  • Resources to calm yourself and become nonreactive
  • How to unhook and shift your focus
  • How to formulate strategies for change
  • Toward redesigning your life and relationship


How do we stop going over the same territory? I’m stuck!

19 Live Infidelity Coaching Sessions with Dr. Huizenga
Connect with others who share their journey through infidelity with Dr. Huizenga. Be there with them. Dr. Huizenga also shares his impressions as he recaps each individual coaching session. Download to your MP3 player.

  • Broken Promises. Broken Spirit. Broken Body – audio with Julie
  • How Can I Compete with a 29 Year Old Blond Bombshell? – audio with Fiona
  • How Sue Catapulted Through Her 3-Week Crying Jag and Meltdown -audio with Sue
  • and 13 other sessions


Should I spy?

Should I Spy?
This ebook examines your motives and need for spying, legitimate reasons for you to spy, ways to know if you are emotionally ready to spy and how to deal with the consequences that spying may bring.

  • What IS he/she doing?
  • I can’t stand myself for mistrusting, for checking the mileage, voice mail, etc. How can I get this out of my mind?
  • Can I trust my intuition, which says that something IS going on?


Should I confront the other person?

The Risks and Rewards of Confronting the Other Person: A Strategy that May Shake His/Her World
This ebook is an extensive summary of a Strategy that May Shake His/Her World. This ebook is an extensive summary of Dr. Huizenga’s research on the question: “Should I confront the other person?” 85 specific stories are told of the impact of confronting the other person. Suggestions are offered as you decide whether or not to confront.

  • Top 10 Apparent Reasons for Confronting the Other Person and the Results (Good and Bad)
  • 13 Underlying Reasons Why Some Want to Confront the Other Person
  • 32 Tips and Observations on Confronting the Other Person
  • 41 Steps of Preparation and Assessment for Confronting the Other Person

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