Tag Archives: distant spouse

Think Marital Resolution

This continues my speaking to the distant or pulling away spouse or partner… You are encouraged or in other ways told it is important for you to “work on the marriage.” The underlying message is to shape up, meet the … Continue reading

Posted in Emotional Distance, Relationships: Marriage | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

The Distant Spouse: I Must be Romantic or Sexy

You, as the pulling away spouse, may be requested to be more “romantic” or “sexy.” The request may be direct: “I want you to be more romantic or sexy,” or you pick up from the need system of your spouse … Continue reading

Posted in Dr. Huizenga's Blog Posts, Emotional Distance, Rebuilding the Marriage or Relationship, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy | Tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment

Can I Trust Again? Or…Too Much Damage?

This is part 2 of my transcript on trust with Nat. Her second question relates to the amount of damage and her capacity to trust and rebuild. Nat:  Part of that is, is there is a point when there’s been … Continue reading

Posted in Emotional Distance, Emotional Infidelity, Infidelity Coaching, Infidelity Marriage, Infidelity Pain, Real Life Infidelity Stories, Rebuilding the Marriage or Relationship, Surviving Infidelity, Trust Building, Types of Affairs | Tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment