Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

This knowledge Will Save Your Sanity and Maybe Marriage

Discovering the TRUTH about infidelity will provide comfort, set you free and help you develop your plan of action. All affairs are not alike. Affairs are different depending on • the motivation • personality factors • and personal history of … Continue reading

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Getting Him To Talk

It’s often like pulling teeth… or worse. And, you want it so badly… • To know what he thinks • A connection – something! • You’ve tried everything • You feel so alone and rejected 90% of those I coach … Continue reading

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You Really are Normal!

I often reflect: What is about what I do that people find so liberating and helpful? Here’s what I think it is: I help those suffering from marriage crisis (or any crisis, really) to feel normal; they are not defective … Continue reading

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Key #1 to Infidelity Recovery: Stop Doing What You are Doing

Key Point: An affair is built upon tension. Tension fuels an affair, not love; nothing else. And, that tension resides most powerfully between husband, wife and the affair partner. (Learn more about the nature of this tension in the Infidelity … Continue reading

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4 Critical Steps to Infidelity Recovery

You can survive infidelity in your marriage and recover. But infidelity recovery does not happen by chance. Learn how to go through the infidelity recovery process that leaves nothing to chance. Resources, support and the materials you must have are found in the Infidelity Recovery Center. Follow the 4 Critical Steps for Infidelity Recovery. Continue reading

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How to Respond to Your Children when Your Marriage is Rocked by Infidelity, Fear, Threats of Divorce or an Emotional Crisis

It is prudent and wise to think about your children when your marriage suffers. Because children know. They may not know the facts (and you try not to ‘tell’) but they know something is wrong, terribly wrong. The feel it. … Continue reading

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I Went over the Edge and Anger Became Rage

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My Spouse Refuses to Work on Rebuilding the Marriage

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He Tells Me He Loves me AND HER

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When Will He Get Out of the Affair Fog?

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