Are you looking for ways that you can save your marriage and stop the affair your partner is having? Then you don’t need to look any further because in this two-part blog post, we will discuss seven strategies you can use to stop the affair and give you the opportunity to heal your marriage.
As you know, there are different types of affairs – seven that we have developed and that you can read more about here – and that your husband or wife could be in any one of these types of affairs. But these seven strategies are actually effective in helping you stop the affair no matter what type it is.
You have to remember, though, that to stop the affair is not easy or simple, especially if your partner is a serial philanderer or has addictive urges. In cases like this, these strategies may not be as effective as you want or expect it to be.
Just like everything else, these strategies cannot be done without exerting any effort. If you want this to work to stop the affair, you will need to be committed in doing these strategies and focused on achieving your goal, and this demands strength and power, control and dedication.
The discovery of the affair is the hardest part, and it is during this time that you will be able to see if you can handle controlling your feelings and emotions, which is a big aspect of doing these strategies. Of course, this isn’t to say that you shouldn’t be hurt or sad or angry or lost upon discovering your husband or wife’s affair.
It is normal for you to react this way, and there’s nothing wrong with doing so. But if you can see that you won’t be able to handle going through these strategies, then it is best that you find ways that will allow you to regain some strength, trust and confidence in yourself that will help you in going through these strategies to stop the affair.
One more thing that you have to make sure of is the reason why you are trying or why you want to try these strategies. This is not something you can use to manipulate your partner into behaving or acting the way you want him or her to. If that is your purpose, then your partner will see right what you are doing and will most likely retaliate.
These strategies are here to help you. They are here because you have decided that you want to save your marriage and give it another shot. And you are using them because you want to stop the affair, because this is what you want for you and you think this is the right way to go.