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What Will Happen Next?

If you are like most confronted with an affair, and especially if it is fresh, you are confused and afraid.

You may not have a clue what's ahead or only have a fuzzy idea. Your world is like confetti thrown in the air and it hasn't fallen to the ground. It's fluttering and blowing in the breeze.

The unknown frightens you. What will he/she do? What will happen next? What must I prepare for?

Affairs Are Predictable

What he/she will do is predictable. There are patterns. You can have a good idea of what will happen next.

And, if you have some idea, you can breathe a little easier and begin to strategize and take action. And, that feels better!

This mini-ebook is a crystal ball that looks into your future.

It is a tool that helps you with great accuracy identify what kind of affair faces you and what will most likely happen next, if the affair progresses to its conclusion.

I present key points for 7 different kinds of affairs. I then outline the predictable situations with which you must cope for each kind of affair. "What Happens Next?" is based on what typically happens as each affair progresses.

When the Bets are Off

If you begin to make calculated interventions; change your typical way of responding to him/her, all bets are off. In a relationship of investment, the other person usually cannot not change when you change.

Of course, that is probably your goal. But first, you need to know the intended outcome for the changes you make. This ebook is a starting point.

Here are some benefits I hope you experience with this ebook:

  • You will experience greater calm. We often fear the unknown and this fear can paralyze and create havoc. Knowing what you most likely face gives you a knowing. And that knowing is comforting.
  • As you being to understand that not all affairs are alike, you will be able to stand back and objectively assess your situation. That not only offers relief from your feelings, but also enables you to begin to strategize for change.
  • You will begin to feel as if you DO have some form of control. You also will know that some of his/her behaviors you cannot control and are NOT your responsibility or fault. Take a deep breath!
  • You will become proactive rather than reactive. You will have a plan. You will stand firm. You will begin to know exactly what you need to do when to change the course of your crisis.
  • Your confidence will partially be restored and renewed. You will see yourself as a unique person in and of your own right and not bound or responsible for the destructiveness of the his/her behavior.

A Grip on Reality

One more point: some of the pictures I paint are not very pretty. I give you a realistic assessment of each kind of affair. I don't want to hide anything or convey that your path will be easy. (Although, once you have some tools, it is often easier than what you might think right now.)

I give you reality with the expectation that you will face it courageously and with power. It is often best to face and even search for the worst.

By confronting all you need to confront you assure yourself that this will NEVER happen to you again.

Conversely, I experience too many people minimizing and tolerating, with the intent of easing the pain as quickly as possible. They often pay later, a much higher price, for sliding over the painful but important realities of their affair.

So, let's get started!

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I personally wish you the best.

With warm regards,

Bob

P.S. Please know that I am available for you. Some people find the convenience of telecoaching to be a tremendous source of support and direction during this difficult time. Have you considered having your own coach? Check this out under personal guidance.


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