Ask Dr. Bob – Infidelity and an Extramarital Affair Mean SECRETS and the Price one Pays

The Price of a Secret…and the price of a previous affair
Is she¬†suspicious¬†of his “possible” affair because she had one previously?

Dear Dr. Bob,

My husband seems on the up and up that he is not having an affair. I have had an affair before. could this be the reason i am feeling like he is cheating? All of his hours of work are accounted for and he is always home on time. He never goes anywhere without me. Do i just have a guilty conscience?

My response:

Dear Reader,

Decades ago it was called “projection” – putting on other people those things that are really stirring in ourselves. Maybe that is happening.

But, let’s look at a couple other angles.

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