Extramarital Affairs: Learn How Hundreds of Others Have Found Strength
An extramarital affair need not destroy you – or your relationship or your family! You can indeed break free from the extramarital affair.
For many, extramarital affairs serve as a test, a challenge and a springboard to redesign one’s life and relationships.
Extramarital affairs, indeed you will find as you read these testimonials, can bring new strength, purpose and clarity to your life and relationships. And, these statements from those confronting extramarital affairs let you know that you are not alone. Others have weathered the storm and feel the calm after it passes.
Many of the following testimonials are from people who found power and comfort in my ebook. For more information click here.
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Comments about
Break Free From the Affair:
Dealing with a cheating spouse or cheating boyfriend can be one of the most painful and devastating experiences a relationship can face.I cannot recommend this book enough. It not only outlines specifically the 7 types of affairs (and how to handle each – whether you choose to stay or go), but you will find it’s material empowering. This book will help you to fully understand that YOU are not defective.There is nothing wrong with YOU! It also begins with the big question: “Do you really want to be in a relationship with this person?”Anyone faced with infidelity, or anyone who wants to avoid infidelity should have a copy of this book. I cannot recommend it enough. Tracey of pig-dogs.net
It is very important for the sanity of we who have been betrayed to know that we are NOT crazy and that an affair is NOT our “fault”. You are terrific for providing this information
—Yvonne
Everyone who is experiencing the pain and shock of an affair or suspected affair should read Dr. Bob Huizenga’s “Breaking Free” book. This material, more than anything else, has helped me forge my way through a terrible time, and gain clear perspective on what I have been dealing with. Dr. Bob sheds light on human nature and the predictable patterns we follow in relationships and marriages in a profoundly concise way. “Break Free” has set me free in many ways, despite terrible personal pain, because I was able to put my situation into perspective, and face the reality of it all.Truth, stumbling around for months and perhaps even years, “wondering” about what my husband’s behavior might mean, and how I ought to behave back, I quickly gained a clear understanding of my reality after reading “Break Free.” As time goes on, I find myself even more amazed at just how accurate and helpful Dr. Bob’s insight and advice is. On top of the material, Bob’s personal coaching has provided much needed relief and additional support when I have really needed it. Thanks very much Bob….- Jennifer (last name withheld)
Dr. Bob,Thank you for all your support e-mails the last few days. When I returned to work from a very stressful holiday, I really needed to read all of them. Can’t wait to read all the goodies I downloaded when I get home tonight. Finding your website has been a Godsend. Your reassurance that I will make it and that the affair is not my fault, helps me each and every day. Susan
Thank you, I feel like I have an answer now and help. Thank you again. Bless you for helping so many people. I wish I had found your site a year ago and I might not be in this mess. Sincerely, Debra.
Dear Dr. Huizenga, First and foremost I want to say that you have already helped me tremendously just by reading some of your articles and information on your website and your emails. Of all the websites and books I have read, yours is superior in regard to this subject. I sincerely appreciate all your work to help people like me that are in the situations that we are. John
Dr. Huizenga: I have read every book I could get my hands on over the last two-and-a-half years since I knew my husband was involved with another woman. His affair lasted two years and has been ended for almost ten months. With all of the top-ranked “affair/infidelity” and “relationship” books on the market, I thought I had the best information available to help me, and my husband, not only end his affair but to get through the tough times following it. Was I ever wrong! You have produced the most helpful, useful and relevant book on dealing with your partner’s affair that I have ever seen. You include vital information that no other source contains. Your profiles are so accurate it is eery! For me the most valuable part of each chapter is the very specific advice on what YOU can do to increase your chances that your marriage will survive the affair. I felt many times as I read your book that you somehow had been in my head and heart and living my life, your descriptions and profiles are that accurate! Yvonne
This newsletter hit my situation dead on the head!!! I felt like I was getting a reading from a psychic!!! I have chills right now. Lauren
I really liked the phrase “I will make it.” I have been really down and it has some how reinspired me. I also liked the 12 mistakes people make. I knew I wanted to stay in the relationship (for a variety of reasons) but I was having a hard time moving forward. Those 12 things really made me look in the mirror. We have taken a lot of very positive steps. Jeanette
A step by step approach to how to identify and what to do about handling the affair made it easy for me to take action. Janice
Dear Dr. Huizenga, I just bought your book yesterday and all I can say is thank you. I was on a emotional roller coaster when I found out that my wife was having an affair (#4). Everything you said about the typical reactions for the offended were dead on. Everything you mentioned, I was going through (I was miserable). You helped me more than anyone or any resource ever did. It was uncanny how accurate everything was.
Dr. Huizenga, you saved me from so much pain and anguish, now I have the power, the knowledge and the confidence to go on with my life. Thank you for everything! Kelly
PS. I would have paid ten times more for the book if I knew how truly Powerful it was.
Thanks Bob, The portions of the book I have read have helped me enormously.
I feel I have some direction in how to pick up the pieces and make decisions that will be good instead of destructive. Anything that takes my mind off what I’m feeling is helpful. If I learn something from the information as well as gaining a distraction, and we can get past this hurdle, the information in your book is nothing except a GODSEND. I thank you for your service to humankind. I think you are truly one gifted being working to eliminate some pain and suffering from this world. I’ll be happy to mention your work to others. Thanks once again. Laurie
Thanks again – a bit of a Lifesaver, aren’t you? Linda
You were right on and after I shared it with my husband, He opened up more than ever because he was not sure him self what was going on ! Evette
Thank you so much for publishing this book!! I was really having a hard time trying to understand how and why things happened the way that they did. The affair that my husband had just ripped me apart. I am much better now, although I have a long way to go. I am more focused on myself and my children, and less obsessive about the affair. I went so far as trying to visualize my husband with this “older” woman. I have no doubt that my husband loves me, but in the back of my head, I just had these doubts. The one thing I did learn from the reading so far, is identifying the type of affair that he had. I had to take a good hard look at myself and address some personal issues of my own. I never knew he was insecure about our marriage, his sexual performance and the fear of losing me to another man. We have actually taken our marriage to the next level. Open communication is important and vital. We are both in counseling, and my therapist loves the book. She will be contacting you. I can’t thank you enough for your publication. Rosemary
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