Questions Most SHOULD Ask when Facing Infidelity
There are the common questions that most ask when they discover infidelity in their marriage. And then, there are the questions that they SHOULD ask. Dr. Huizenga covers five of those questions below.
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Dr. Huizenga – The Infidelity Coach
Surviving Infidelity Top 10 Questions
I’m creating a video series on The Top 10 Questions People Ask and the Top 10 Questions People SHOULD Ask on Surviving Infidelity.
Choose which video you want to watch (you certainly can view more than one!) and if you feel compelled to comment, or something resonates with you, make sure you leave a comment below the video.
Again, I’m continually impressed by what you learn from each other and the degree to which reading others’ comments can generate hope for healing and change.
What Type of Affair Is It?
You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole.
Trying to influence the direction of an affair with strategies and tactics that are appropriate and designed for another type of affair is worse than futile. You efforts may cause more harm than good.
What if S/he Continues Seeing the OP?
What do you do if your spouse, with the affair exposed, continues seeing the other person?
Ambivalence often rules.
Get tips on how to verbally confront the ambivalence.
But, first start with THE question.
Will I Trust Again?
In my video series on surviving infidelity I answer the question, “Will I ever trust again?”
There are a couple ways of looking at this question.
You may be thinking: “will I ever trust my cheating spouse again?”
Or, another component: “Will I ever be able to to love again?”
What Gets Triggered in Me?
Don’t be in the reactive mode. Ever get caught or stuck in the “circle” and not be able to get out?
I describe a 3 step awareness that helps you move from the reactive mode to exercising your personal power which has a much better chance of influencing the direction of the affair.
