Category Archives: Infidelity Reasons

Rebuilding the Relationship: Making Sure It Works

Posted on May 15, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What does it take to make sure that rebuilding the relationship or marriage will work after infidelity gets in the middle of it? A lot of couples have succeeded in rebuilding the relationship, but not after a few bumps in … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Counseling: Why Men Avoid Marital Therapy

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why are men so against infidelity counseling, especially when they’re the ones who have done the cheating? Most of the time, when a couple goes in for infidelity counseling or marital therapy to try to rebuild their marriage after an … Continue reading →

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Details of the Affair: Why Isn’t He/She Telling Me?

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How important is it to know the details of the affair? When infidelity occurs in the marriage, it is common for the victim to demand to know the details of the affair – asking what happened, when, where and how … Continue reading →

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Identifying Barriers: First Step in Recovering From Infidelity

Posted on April 26, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things you need to do when your marriage is recovering from infidelity? There is a lot of information out there that will tell you the things you can do to fix your relationship and make your marriage … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is it possible to be able to trust after infidelity? The following is a summary of a session with a client who is finding it difficult to trust after infidelity. She talks about some of the things she is dealing … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: How to Emotionally Reconnect After the Affair

Posted on April 19, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are you having trouble figuring out how to emotionally reconnect with your spouse after infidelity? This is from another real-life coaching session with a client who is having a rather hard time dealing with her husband’s extramarital affair. She talks … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Reasons: Knowing Why He/She Cheated

Posted on January 20, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is it Important to Know the Infidelity Reasons and Why My Partner Cheated? A lot of the people have asked this question, and the answer is always the same: Yes. Why? Because knowing the infidelity reasons or factors behind one’s … Continue reading →

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Internet Fantasies and Cheating

Posted on September 12, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

More comments from readers. Note the pain and ambivalence in the last reader. The fantasy of it all, and the ease with which one can “pretend” to be anyone at all without face to face contact or daily interactions as … Continue reading →

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Discovering Internet Infidelity

Posted on September 8, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

More responses from the survey. Leave your comments below, please. My wife has had an ongoing affair that fits the profile of “immature relationship – unfinished business” with a guy she met at a party who “friend-ed” her on Facebook. … Continue reading →

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Internet Cheating Comments and Stories

Posted on September 4, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Many of my readers responded to a survey on internet cheating with questions. Please note: My husband had 3 affairs that way with internet, email sex and 3 others looking for men for his virginal trust with another man…I have … Continue reading →

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