The Infidelity Insider Provides Huge Quantity of Information on Infidelity


I need and want…

  • To quickly overcome the shock and pain of betrayal
  • A place where I can feel normal and safe, "at home" during this crisis
  • To be crystal clear on what I must say and do to resolve the mistrust and confusion with my partner
  • To feel calm, more stable, more empowered
  • To explore every new avenue to save the relationship and know for certain if that is what I really want

I just started implementing some of the strategies recently so it is a
bit premature to comment… but I am feeling a lot better, more focused, less depression and anxiety spells. Spouse did notice change; it seems to be more passive now… I still can’t trust him..Jill

I identified my partner in two of your profiles. Having done that I
questioned whether I wanted more of the same or to move on to a happier me. Your book helped me come to terms with my insecurities, made me ask myself questions that I had previously not even thought of. I became calmer and stronger and very lucid.

Break Free from the Affair really helped a bunch. She was blaming me for being over-controlling. She was blaming me for everything. It really hurt a bunch. I am not a terrible person, I will grow from this. She is having a “I fell out of love" emotional phone affair with an old boyfriend. I ask her if it could last. Seems like she is having second thoughts now. Thanks, Jeff

I cannot thank you enough. Infidelity in a marriage is the absolute "Deal Breaker’ for me. Even though I decided to divorce my cheating husband, your advice was priceless. I kicked the lying ass hole to the curb with grace and dignity. He’s currently looking for a way back into my life. Too bad, so sad. You helped me fall OUT of a non-existent love…. WITHOUT the silly drama. God Bless you! Mary

To move through the infidelity crisis more quickly and with more confidence and certainty about he future, I do make these promises to Dr. Huizenga and his staff:

  • I pledge to spend the next 3-18 months surrounding myself with resources, caring people and input from experts and others who know how to survive and even thrive through infidelity.
  • I am determined to learn as much as I can, to find my strength and courage to use new skills and and develop an outlook that will stop the affair and reshape my life and relationship to what I really want.


Infidelity Insider includes a minimum of these resources and opportunities:

Download free The complete E-book: Infidelity: Discovery to Recovery – 4 Predictable Stages on Your Journey and Resources for Each Stage.

The e-book offers you a look at 4 practical coaching scenarios beginning with "Mary’s Caribbean Fling" and ending with "Revenge at its Best." Receive also extensive resources for each of the 4 stages.

Download free The Mini-ebook: "Can Your Marriage Be Saved?"

Dr. Huizenga outlines 7 different kinds of affairs. He rates each on a scale of 1-10 for the odds one has in saving that marriage – provided the same patterns continue and no changes are made in how the "offended" spouse approaches the affair and his/her partner.

Download Free the Mini-ebook: "What Will Happen Next?"

Again, Dr.Huizenga takes his 7 kinds of affairs and considering the history, patterns and nature of each affair, makes predictions about what the "offended" spouse can expect to happen next? Will the affair last? For how long? and more….

Download free the mini-series: Infidelity Coach Dr. Bob Huizenga Answers your Questions. In his practical and direct manner Dr Huizenga responds to such dilemmas as:

  • An Internet Affair…Again?
  • But…"We’re Just Friends"?
  • Is This Internet Cheating?
  • What to Do When There is a Child and more…

Download free "Should I spy?" Take a hard and careful look at the prospect of spying on your spouse.

If you are a spouse who suspects your partner might be having an affair, wants to find out if he/she is telling the truth or has a need to discover details of the affair, this E-book is for you.

Download free "Barriers to a Marriage Makeover"

Barriers in a marriage need attention before any "makeover," resolution or joint decisions can occur. Often you are not aware of the specifics of the barriers. This e-book guides you in naming your barriers.

Receive the Bi-weekly Break Free From the Affair Newsletter

New e-books, new articles, updates and recommendations to help you cope and move through infidelity faster and with more confidence are available to you every other week. Keeps you informed about the latest and best resources.

I understand that many of the article series and Break Free From the Affair Newsletter archives are organized and located in Infidelity Insider. I will have full access to all of Dr. Huizenga’s writing plus other relevant authors.

1. Discovering Infidelity
Find several articles on how to cope during the first days after discovering your partner is involved in an extramarital affair. Learn how to handle the intense feelings one experiences in the following articles:

  • Infidelity Discovered? 10 Ways to Calm Your Powerful Feelings
  • Infidelity Discovered: Why He/She Won’t Tell Me the Truth?
  • Infidelity – Day of Discovery: How to "Hold" your Feelings
  • Day of Discovery: I’m a Mess! Do I Need Meds?
  • Infidelity: Why the Need to Know is So Strong

2. Emotional Infidelity
Learn techniques to possibly save your marriage if your partner is having an emotional affair. Also, learn the distinctions between two seemingly similar types of emotional affairs, the "just friends" affair and the "falling in love" affair.

  • Emotional Infidelity: A KEY Tactic to Save the Marriage
  • Emotional Infidelity: A Love Affair or Just Friends?

3. Sexual Addiction
Are you or your partner sexually addicted? Learn how to handle an affair in which your spouse is sexually addicted. Discover signs typically exhibited by someone who is sexually addicted.

  • Extramarital Affairs: When Sexual Addiction and Infidelity Meet
  • Adultery as Sexual Addiction: Should You Stay Married?
  • Sexually Addicted? 10 Important Questions to Ask

4. Spying
Discover authentic motives and reasons for spying in a relationship facing marital infidelity. Find articles that face the ethical dilemma and some practical implications of spying on a cheating spouse.

  • Cheating Spouse: 7 Legitimate Motives for Spying
  • Cheating Husband or Wife: 6 Keys to Know if You are Ready to Handle What You Might Find When You Spy
  • Cheating Spouse: Is Spying an Invasion of Privacy?
  • Infidelity: Spying is NOT Revenge

5. Trust Building/Recovery
Learn several effective strategies to rebuild a relationship scarred by the crisis of an extramarital affair. Also, discover barriers that inhibit couples recovering from infidelity to survive the extramarital affair and rebuild their marriage.

  • 10 Crucial and Surprising Steps to Build Trust in a Relationship
  • Infidelity Recovery for a Relationship: A HUGE Problem
  • Relationship Tips: 16 Practical Dramatic Ways to Know if He/She is REALLY Changing
  • Marital Infidelity Recovery: 6 Reasons NOT to "Work on the Marriage"
  • Marital Infidelity: 11 Stubborn Barriers to "Making over" Your Relationship

6. Types of Extramarital Affairs
Not all extramarital affairs are alike. Learn about many different types of affairs, several of which are outlines in Dr. Huizenga’s Ebook, "Break Free From the Affair."

  • Infidelity: How “My Marriage Made Me Do It” is a Cop-out
  • The Revenge Affair: Characteristics of the Adulterer
  • Infidelity Excuse: I Fell Out of Love…and just love being in love
  • Infidelity: Difference Between a Rage and Revenge Affair
  • Signs of Infidelity: My Marriage Made Me Do It
  • Signs of a Cheating Spouse…and how they differ from Signs of Infidelity
  • Sign of Affair: I Fell Out of Love…and just love being in love

7. Infidelity Quickies
Specific scenarios facing those in the midst of infidelity or an extramarital affair. Analysis and coaching tips by Dr. Huizenga for each scenario.

  • Infidelity Quickie #1: Feels Like the Agony of the Affair will Never End
  • Infidelity Quickie #2: Hanging on to the Silver Lining in infidelity
  • Infidelity Quickie #3: The "Surface Stroke" is Killing Me and My Trust
  • Infidelity Quickie #4: From Depression to a Future Tinged with Hope
  • Infidelity Quickie #5: How Could She Do This?
  • Infidelity Quickie #6: Affair Aftermath – Scrambled Puzzle
  • Infidelity Quickie #7: Three Years and Counting
  • Infidelity Quickie #8: Cheated Three Times – Who’s In Control?

7. General Infidelity Articles
Discover a wide variety of articles on infidelity, ranging from how to tell if your partner is cheating, to why it’s important to be physically fit when going through an extramarital affair.

  • Extramarital Affairs: What Everyone Needs to Know… and what you can do to help
  • 46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
  • Relationship Crisis: 6 Reasons to Get Physically Fit
  • Extramarital Affair: Their Sex is Not Always "Hot"

I will have full access to a private, safe, Members-only forum and discussion whereby, if I choose, either through active participation or reading the discussion, can learn what others are experiencing as they cope with infidelity. Here are some topics covered by members:

  • Should I Spy?
  • How do I deal with the pain?
  • He/she is still contacting the OP
  • How do I get him/her to tell the truth?
  • I’m confused. What do I do? What do I say?
  • What kind of affair do I face?
  • What strategies work best?
  • Should I stay or go?
  • He/she is not seeing the OP. We are working on us.
  • How to build trust?
  • He/she wants it to go away. I have questions.
  • I’m moving on – building MY life.
  • Helpful resources
  • Obstacles I’m overcoming.
  • I’m involved in an affair and I want out.
  • What get’s in my way?
  • How do I forget about him/her?
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