Marriage can be an environment in which freedom, fun, excitement, spontaneity is cultivated. Sure, not all of the time, but even in the more difficult time you can be ready for the humor and loving support that is able to stand at arm’s length from the overwhelm and embrace possibilities that truly excite.
You can learn that loss of freedom and your personal self need not happen. Shift your thinking and get on the road to see your relationship with your significant other as a means to enhance your personal freedom.
Please leave your comments below. Does the need for personal freedom or “fun” play a role in the affair and emotional distancing?