Tag Archives: infidelity help

Identifying Barriers: First Step in Recovering From Infidelity

Posted on April 26, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things you need to do when your marriage is recovering from infidelity? There is a lot of information out there that will tell you the things you can do to fix your relationship and make your marriage … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is it possible to be able to trust after infidelity? The following is a summary of a session with a client who is finding it difficult to trust after infidelity. She talks about some of the things she is dealing … Continue reading →

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Recover from Infidelity: Turning Depression into Hope

Posted on April 17, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Learn how to recover from infidelity from this real-life infidelity story. Over the past 20 years, a lot of clients have come in for personal, one-on-one coaching and counseling sessions to try to be a step closer to recover from … Continue reading →

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Extramarital Affairs: Who is to Blame?

Posted on March 2, 2012 by Jan Stevens

In almost every case of infidelity, the one getting all the blame, hate and anger is usually the third party. This is mostly because the general belief in society is that the third person is the one who caused the … Continue reading →

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How to Help with Infidelity

Posted on February 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are you trying to provide help with infidelity to a friend or family member? One of the most common questions that friends of people who are in the middle of infidelity crises ask is “what can I do to for … Continue reading →

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Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 3

Posted on July 1, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are some responses from my readers to the list I posted previously about self help strategies (I listed 8) being limited: I think many people, me included, know that all that lovey-dovey crap isn’t going to help them through … Continue reading →

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Speaking your “Voice” to Your Spouse – Part 2

Posted on June 28, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are some more key points about using your personal power and speaking your voice to your spouse: You need not be loud and when you speak your voice. A quiet, calm, yet coming from within you voice, holds the … Continue reading →

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Traditional Self Help is Limited – Part 2

Posted on June 24, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are 4 more self help strategies: You must get marriage counseling. Please know that I’ve had a private practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 1981. Not all marriage counseling is equal. There are inherent contradictions that … Continue reading →

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Getting Him/Her to “Talk” Part 2

Posted on June 21, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

Here are some other points to consider when trying to engage or getting your spouse to “talk”: A series of Engagements, each building positively on the other, create a framework for the possibility of warmth, acceptance, love and romance (if … Continue reading →

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Rebuilding Your Marriage: 8 Key Points on Creating Distinctions

Posted on June 18, 2011 by Dr. Bob Huizenga

From time to time, throughout my material, you will hear me refer to the process of making distinctions. Making distinctions is the process of discovering deeper and deeper meaning and understanding in a concept. Take “love,” for example. What is … Continue reading →

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