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Revealing Infidelity: Things You Need to Consider

Posted on July 10, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What things should you have to keep in mind when you are revealing infidelity to your partner? The majority of individuals who have had an affair go through the process of making the decision of whether or not they should … Continue reading →

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Focusing on Yourself to Heal Infidelity and Develop Trust

Posted on June 14, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is focusing on yourself in a relationship a good way to heal infidelity and develop trust? How is that possible? By focusing on yourself, you understand how important it is to let your partner know what your needs are as … Continue reading →

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How Charging Neutral Can Rebuild the Trust in Your Marriage

Posted on June 12, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What benefits does charging neutral provide to your marriage after infidelity? Will you be able to fix your relationship? And more importantly, will you be able to trust your partner and yourself again? Developing trust, especially in marriages affected by … Continue reading →

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Rebuilding the Relationship: Making Sure It Works

Posted on May 15, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What does it take to make sure that rebuilding the relationship or marriage will work after infidelity gets in the middle of it? A lot of couples have succeeded in rebuilding the relationship, but not after a few bumps in … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Counseling: Why Men Avoid Marital Therapy

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why are men so against infidelity counseling, especially when they’re the ones who have done the cheating? Most of the time, when a couple goes in for infidelity counseling or marital therapy to try to rebuild their marriage after an … Continue reading →

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Identifying Barriers: First Step in Recovering From Infidelity

Posted on April 26, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things you need to do when your marriage is recovering from infidelity? There is a lot of information out there that will tell you the things you can do to fix your relationship and make your marriage … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Is it possible to be able to trust after infidelity? The following is a summary of a session with a client who is finding it difficult to trust after infidelity. She talks about some of the things she is dealing … Continue reading →

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Recover from Infidelity: Turning Depression into Hope

Posted on April 17, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Learn how to recover from infidelity from this real-life infidelity story. Over the past 20 years, a lot of clients have come in for personal, one-on-one coaching and counseling sessions to try to be a step closer to recover from … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Holding on to the Silver Lining

Posted on April 6, 2012 by Jan Stevens

This is an excerpt from one of the coaching sessions Dr. Robert Huizenga had with a client who discovered that her husband had an affair while he was on active duty during the war. After finding out about my husband’s … Continue reading →

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The Seventh Type of Affair: Why It Is Confusing

Posted on March 16, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How to Deal with the Confusion of the Seventh Type of Affair The 7th kind of affair, I Want to be Close to Someone (which means I can’t stand intimacy), is usually accompanied with plenty of confusion, not just on … Continue reading →

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