If you are a female, you may carry the weight of believing you must be sexy. You must be provocative. You must look sexy. You must turn him on. Your breasts, you legs, your abs, your rear become the focus of your attention. You work hard to “strut your stuff” so that you can, as they say, “keep your man.”
You must be alluring. There needs to be a little mystery about you.
And, of course, when he is turned on you must be ready, waiting and responsive.
You know how important sex is to him and realize that those moments may be the moments in which he feels closest to you and values you the most. He equates sex with romance.
It is understandable that you pull away, as a part of you internally rebels at either romance or sexiness.
Please leave your comments below. How have the roles of being romantic or sexy contributed to the infidelity?