Usually, when you discover that your partner is having an affair, the first thought that pops in your head is your partner having sex with someone else and enjoying it. You imagine their sexual encounters to be the most amazing experience your partner has ever had, and that you can never compare to the satisfaction that the other person gives him. There might be some cases where this could be true, but more often than not, it actually isn’t.
It is actually more likely that your partner’s sexual encounters with the other person leaves nothing to be desired, and is nothing like you imagined. There are often cases where the one who was involved in the affair regrets doing so, and the terrible sex with the other person only compounded the guilt your partner felt.
It isn’t always easy to shake the thought that your partner had the time of his life with the other person, and it will probably take some time before you actually believe that it wasn’t as good as you’d thought. But always remember that sex can never be as good in extramarital affairs as it is in a relationship based on truth and integrity.