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Jealousy: A Tool for Stronger Relationships?

Posted on May 22, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What creates stronger relationships? Are there things you can do or practice that will help you and your partner create one? You will be able to find all sorts of different relationship advice posted on the internet that promises to … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Counseling: Why Men Avoid Marital Therapy

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Why are men so against infidelity counseling, especially when they’re the ones who have done the cheating? Most of the time, when a couple goes in for infidelity counseling or marital therapy to try to rebuild their marriage after an … Continue reading →

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Details of the Affair: Why Isn’t He/She Telling Me?

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How important is it to know the details of the affair? When infidelity occurs in the marriage, it is common for the victim to demand to know the details of the affair – asking what happened, when, where and how … Continue reading →

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Identifying Barriers: First Step in Recovering From Infidelity

Posted on April 26, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What are the things you need to do when your marriage is recovering from infidelity? There is a lot of information out there that will tell you the things you can do to fix your relationship and make your marriage … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: How to Emotionally Reconnect After the Affair

Posted on April 19, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Are you having trouble figuring out how to emotionally reconnect with your spouse after infidelity? This is from another real-life coaching session with a client who is having a rather hard time dealing with her husband’s extramarital affair. She talks … Continue reading →

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Recover from Infidelity: Turning Depression into Hope

Posted on April 17, 2012 by Jan Stevens

Learn how to recover from infidelity from this real-life infidelity story. Over the past 20 years, a lot of clients have come in for personal, one-on-one coaching and counseling sessions to try to be a step closer to recover from … Continue reading →

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Holding on to the Silver Lining

Posted on April 6, 2012 by Jan Stevens

This is an excerpt from one of the coaching sessions Dr. Robert Huizenga had with a client who discovered that her husband had an affair while he was on active duty during the war. After finding out about my husband’s … Continue reading →

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Infidelity Feelings: Holding On To Your Feelings During Infidelity

Posted on March 23, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How Do You Learn to “Hold Your Infidelity Feelings” when confronted with the devastation of an extramarital affair? Most people have a hard time upon discovering that their partners are engaged in an extramarital affair. All these thoughts and feelings … Continue reading →

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The Seventh Type of Affair: Why It Is Confusing

Posted on March 16, 2012 by Jan Stevens

How to Deal with the Confusion of the Seventh Type of Affair The 7th kind of affair, I Want to be Close to Someone (which means I can’t stand intimacy), is usually accompanied with plenty of confusion, not just on … Continue reading →

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After the Affair: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Posted on March 9, 2012 by Jan Stevens

What to Do After the Affair… Discovering your partner’s infidelity is never easy, and deciding whether or not to stay in the marriage after the affair isn’t any easier. Plenty of couples stay together after infidelity, but then there are … Continue reading →

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