Break Free From the Affair

Hello. Dr. Huizenga here…

This too shall pass! I say this sometimes to those who feel the initial stab of pain.

I say this because you are here and want to learn, want the tools and want the information that will help you break free from the affair.

I’ve carefully researched, analyzed and condensed my 30+ years as a Marriage and Family Therapist into a “Infidelity Recovery Chart.”

Scan the chart below. Note where you are now. Note where you want to be.

Take advantage of the time tested tools listed at the bottom of the chart that will aid you in your recovery journey.

Also, make sure you opt in to all the free information that I provide. This content changes periodically, so keep abreast of every offering.

Wishing you the best,

Featured Articles

Keys to Surviving, Overcoming and Coping with the Affair  

Surviving infidelity and an affair IS possible. It may not feel that way if you’ve recently discovered the infidelity of your spouse or partner. If you just discovered the affair or the suspicions of infidelity are so strong they are driving you crazy, you know what I’m talking about.

Extramarital Affairs:
What Everyone Needs to Know…  

Recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in marital infidelity.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
46 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair

Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don’t change anything.


Your writings and ebooks have not only saved my marriage, but also my life. My pain is still not over, as I discovered that my wife of 20 years has been having long term affairs on the side for 17 of these years, including the period over which we were having children. I read your books and emails over and over, and they helped tremendously to understand her problems as well as mine. It’s taken me a year and half to get myself together, but my new business is thriving and we are still together. And perhaps for the first time we are ‘really’ together.

Each day is a new day, but I realize there is so much I need to learn about myself and why I got in the situation to begin with. I was glad to find your website and I’m glad that today your newsletter was here.


I have felt like a hamster, trapped in a wheel, going around and around through despair, anger, confusion; wondering how this could have happened, what I did wrong, what to do next etc…I have purchased your book Break Free From the Affair and I call it my Bible. Your material is just fantastic and you will never know how much you have helped me through this terrible painful time.

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