Get on the Fast Track: Resolve the Infidelity Nightmare More Quickly, Effectively and with More Power and Confidence

Discover how to Rebuild and Sustain Trust and Intimacy

You want this mess over as of yesterday, correct?

An hour seems like a day, a day a week and a week a lifetime when a spouse is cheating.

I often observe this sad situation. And, I hope it doesn't fit you, but, my guess is, it probably does.

Now, I'm not being critical of you. I care deeply for those I work with. But, when the agony of the affair strikes your heart and soul, you are most likely to go back to your default mode of coping.

Nine times out of ten; more like 10 out of 10, our default mode doesn't help us get what we really want. It mires us deeper in our pain.

So please listen carefully.

Here are some common default modes that prolong the agony and often the affair. (And, the person may have no clue that the default mode is getting them exactly what they don't want.

Move Away From Your Quiet Desperation

First, there's the ostrich. You know... buries head in the sand and wishes it all will go away.

Here's the theory: time will heal and we'll get back to normal.

But here's the sad story.

I frequently talk to those 5 - 10 - 15 - 20 or more years after the infidelity and they still feel the pain. The memories still haunt them. The ostriches are still unable to trust. They live lives of quiet desperation and isolation. Now, please understand that the sharp edge of the pain dulled over time, but it's still there, still draining life and vitality.

No Pain, No Gain

And, then there's the yo-yo dabbler.

This person addresses the infidelity - only when the pain reaches a threshold. When the pain intensifies s/he intensifies his/her efforts and takes action to alleviate the pain. S/he will cautiously, but persistently, try new behaviors until relief is found.

And so there are cycles. Pain > do something > feel better > stop doing > pain > do something > feel better > stop doing.

It's like being on a merry-go-round.

...Always waiting for the next crisis. Yikes - a crisis driven life!

Head-Butters Don't Mess Around

• The third type - the head-butters.
• No messing around. Words fly. Ultimatums fly. Watch out.
• This is the proverbial loose cannon that shoots whenever wherever, with no particular target in mind.
• Let's blast at everything and hope we hit something or, to some degree, control the situation.
• Now if one of these resonates strongly with you be assured you are not alone.
• I've been more of the ostrich at points in my life and it has NOT served me well.
• And, as you can imagine, I've worked with all three types.
• Each brings their strength, their own inner resources to bear on the infidelity crisis.
• Where do you fit? Give a minute to let this sink in.

Your Catalyst to the Fast Track

The Gold Package introduces tele-coaching.

Coaching is a way for you to break through your default pattern and choose a healing and change path that is most productive, most helpful in easing your pain and stopping the affair.

Tele-coaching (over the phone) is a tremendous catalyst to catapult you through the pain, confusion and betrayal of infidelity much much faster.

Move to the Fast Track And...

• 1. Break free from the affair much quicker. Unfortunately, when left to your own devices, you keep going over the same stuff time and time again. You swirl. Ever notice that? Same ole, same ole. You keep doing that which doesn't work. Coaching helps break the swirling which helps you break free. 


• 2. Become smarter. Coaching gives you different ways of thinking about the affair and different strategies to use. You do not keep going over the same territory. There is movement.


• 3. You will like yourself better. You will be affirmed. Step number one for me is to let you know, through this time when you can doubt yourself, that you really are ok. This feels good!


• 4. You will have something to look forward to. Coaching becomes an oasis in which you are really heard, can talk about your vital concerns and begin to purposefully design your life and relationships.


• 5. You will be more confident and bold. You know that you have a fierce ally who will back you and be there for you.


• 6. You will hit the bulls-eye. You will rehearse exactly what you need to say and do. You will put into words exactly what you want to say. You will be prepared for encounters with the significant other.


• 7. You will keep moving ahead. You won't backslide. Do you ever notice how easy it is to go back to what was familiar, even if you know it's not good for you? You don't have to do that.
  
  
• 8. You will create a new frame for your world. You will see the world through filters that do honor to you and help you get what you truly want.
  
  
• 9. You will go where you've never been but always wanted to go, whether you are aware of it or not.
  
  
• 10. You might laugh! A little humor might be injected, a lightness, which puts your world into a healthy perspective.

Finding a SAFE Place and Ally

So, if you tend to bury your head in the sand, coaching is a SAFE place for you to take a peek and muster the courage to confront in a constructive way, your world which is falling apart.

If you are a yo-yo dabble, you are put on a consistent track that sustains the gains you (and perhaps your cheating spouse) make as you resolve the nightmare of infidelity.

If you are a head-butter, you learn how to target your aggression and use it for your benefit (and the ultimate benefit of your cheating spouse. No more flailing like a loose canon.)

No Waiting Room, No Traveling to the Therapist's Office, No One Looking Over Your Shoulder, No Paper Trail, No One Knows

Telecoaching: Coaching takes place over the telephone. Some call it telecoaching.

Sign up for the Gold Package and I will schedule a half hour phone consultation per week with you over the phone. (Sometimes more, depending on your needs.)

It's simple. It's convenient. It's easy. It's confidential.

Working together may help you move through the affair more quickly, avoid the mistakes others make on their own, boost your self-esteem, make you feel better and help you get the life and love relationship you truly want.

Order Now and
You Get IT ALL!!

In addition to the 4 half hour consultations with me, the Gold Package includes all the powerful materials you need to break free from the affair. You receive ALL the material in the Bronze and Silver package plus these bonuses:

BONUS 1

Discovery To Recovery What you MUST do to stop the affair and save your marriage Stage 1: Calm yourself and become nonreactive "10 Simple Things to Do When the Feelings are Intense Develop Daily Habits that Keep you Focused and Motivated Stepping Out of the Realm of Fear Stage 2: Unhook and Shift the Focus Are you Fooled or Fueled? Are you "buzzed" too much? The Emotionally Abusive Relationship Stage 3: Developing awareness of your situation and formulating strategies for change What is a Healthy Sexual Relationship? 16 Ways to Know s(he) is REALLY Changing 6 Reasons why Sexual Activity may Increase after the Affair is Discovered Stage 4: Redesign of life and relationships Be a Powerful Communicator 101 Attitudes and Characteristics of a Super Satisfying Love

BONUS 2

HOW TO "GET OVER IT" FOR GOOD! The CURE for Every Upset In this 48 page e-book, Paul and Layne Cutright teach you how to transform your experience of arguments and upsets in your relationships. Rather than avoiding confrontation and "walking on eggshells", you will be able to safely and constructively talk about things that are hard to talk about.

BONUS 3

Q & A Ask the Coach Q&A with Dr. Rober Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach   An Internet Affair...Again? But..."We're Just Friends"? Is This Internet Cheating? What to Do When There is a Child He/She Won't Stop Seeing the OP: Needs "Patience" The Price of a Secret Say Good-bye He/she had the Affair - Why do I Need to Change?

BONUS 4

You will automatically receive monthly the Break Free Newsletter. The Newsletter presents innovative, thought provoking and exceedingly helpful articles and tools that become tomorrow's best selling e-books and resources. The Newsletter helps you: Keep your life on target in the midst of your crisis Get the boost you need to keep going and Feel better right now Put a knowing smile on your face Be connected to people and resources that will become your best friend Here's what some of my subscribers say: I look forward to your future newsletters. (My husband is aware I am getting information from this site and he is actually reading some of it! I hope it helps.) ---Subscriber Reading your newsletters really seems to help. I read it Monday night and by Tuesday, I felt really good. I felt like I could control everything and not have him in my thoughts every second. ---Subscriber

The Price of Peace and Hope

I'm sure you realize that the journey of healing you now embark upon is one of the most important times of your life.

And, the information you are about to receive is, compared to other acquisitions in your life, close to priceless.

What is the price of hope in your life? What should it cost you to stop the affair, heal your marriage or move ahead with integrity, hope and trust?

I promise you that what you are about to pay for the emergence of hope, trust and a healed relationship is miniscule.

A basic coaching package with me starts at $590 (four half hour phone sessions.) You would pay just as much or more trotting your body through traffic, waiting in a shrinks waiting room and taking the 2 hours out of your day for one appointment.

In addition, I've charged a total of $200 for the other ebooks and materials in this, the Gold Package.

However, for now, you receive the Gold Package - 4 coaching sessions plus all the ebooks listed above and the bonus materials for only $769.95 (or 4 weekly payments of $209.95) .

Notice I said "for now."

Please realize that I take only a limited number of coaching clients. I work hard. I work fast. I work with deliberation and skill. But, there is only so much I can do.

So "for now" this offer stands. Tomorrow it may no longer exist. I may temporarily not take new clients. Or, I may raise my price (which many say I should do.) thereby limiting my hours but increasing my revenue.

(To be honest, I'm not a very good business man... never have been. I always focused on serving and providing, not building a business. But with the high demand for my service, reality demands a business approach. At least that's what others, concerned for my welfare, tell me.)

Anyway, enough about me.

While you can... jump on my offer.

Here Are Some Ifs For You:

• If you want to move through your infidelity crisis quickly
• If you stand the best chance of constructively getting your cheating spouse's attention
• If you want to know with pinpoint accuracy what you must do to stop the affair
• If you someone to rehearse with you the most effective words to use for the most impact
• If you want a fierce ally who will walk by your side...

Money Back Guarantee - 30 Day Trial Period

If you are one of the rare ones who do, I offer you a full money-back 30 day guarantee. If you are unsatisfied, within 30 days send me the date of purchase and transaction ID and a refund will be processed, no questions asked. Plus you get to keep the Bronze.

as well as updates, tips and resources on infidelity.

Order the Gold Package for a one-time payment of $769.95 and find comfort and direction in 5 minutes...

Or, if money is tight right now ... try the Payment Plan

Order the Gold Package for $209.95 now and three more weekly payments of $209.95...and find comfort and direction in 5 minutes...

I look forward to working with you.

And... wish you the best,

Bob

Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
bob@bobhuizenga.com
616.821/3928

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The First Step in Surviving Infidelity
Break Free From the Affair
Cheater Cheater Affair Repeater
Should I Spy?
Cheating spouse guide
Marriage Makeover
19 Live Infidelity Audio Coaching Sessions
11 Barriers to a Marriage Makeover
74 Marriage Stars
Keep Your Marriage
21 Words, Phrases and Sentences to NEVER Say
Talk Like a Winner
Discovery to Recovery
How to get over it for good
Ask the coach - Q&A with Dr. Huizenga
4 Half Hour Coaching Tele-coaching Sessions with Dr. Huizenga
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