postpass2 dealing with infidelity – Break Free from the Affair https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com How to Survive Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs: Find the Help, Advice and Coaching Your Marriage Needs. Sat, 03 Jan 2015 15:45:11 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 Finding Strength in the Midst of Infidelity and Tragedy https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2010/12/09/finding-strength-in-the-midst-of-infidelity-and-tragedy/ https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2010/12/09/finding-strength-in-the-midst-of-infidelity-and-tragedy/#comments Thu, 09 Dec 2010 12:00:04 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=309 Continue reading →]]>

Following is a woman’s heartbreaking story of her experience with infidelity. Learn how she coped through a tragic turn of events and came out a stronger person in the end, largely because of her love for her children.

Hello, I relate so much to the crying, not eating, not being able to work. It was so hard. He walked out 1 week before Christmas. My friends and family helped so much. I thought, “What did I do wrong?” I thought I wasn’t good enough, pretty enough. But it dawned on me one day as I looked in the mirror. I looked at what I was letting him do to me, the weight I lost, the kids trying to cheer me up. It was because of my kids…I didn’t want them to see me like that anymore. I took back my life. They asked questions and I told them the truth about their dad’s other woman. I fought for my life and my children not to give up. Then, it got harder. Their dad (my husband) died in a car accident on Father’s Day. My youngest daughter was there spending the day with her dad for Father’s day. Thank God she wasn’t in the car. Through him leaving and his death, I’m a very strong woman. It has shown my children that you can make it through anything, as long as you have a support system, and for me that was my children.

]]> https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2010/12/09/finding-strength-in-the-midst-of-infidelity-and-tragedy/feed/ 8 What am I Willing to Tolerate and For How Long? https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/19/what-am-i-willing-to-tolerate-and-for-how-long/ https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/19/what-am-i-willing-to-tolerate-and-for-how-long/#comments Wed, 19 Aug 2009 22:26:03 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=67 Continue reading →]]> Unhappy couple having an argument in the kitchen at home

This question emerges when one is in the process of deciding whether to stay or go.

Or, is uncertain about the reconciliation or healing process.

Dr. Huizenga gives a 4 step process in defining what it is you are tolerating and how to rid your self and relationship of those tolerations.

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