postpass2 help in my marriage – Break Free from the Affair https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com How to Survive Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs: Find the Help, Advice and Coaching Your Marriage Needs. Fri, 30 Jan 2015 15:54:11 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 The Distant Spouse is Either In or Out https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2013/05/12/the-distant-spouse-is-either-in-or-out/ https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2013/05/12/the-distant-spouse-is-either-in-or-out/#comments Sun, 12 May 2013 16:10:45 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/?p=6419 Continue reading →]]> Young couple arguing in their living room

Often a polarity emerges in which you are forced to decide whether you are in or out. Perhaps your spouse asks you to make that decision. Perhaps family and friends offer their opinion to either get in or walk away.

So you think: I either must act like a wonderful spouse, even if I don’t feel like it, or I must bolt and divorce. There is no middle ground.

You also begin to compare and think in polarity of bad and good.

My life here really sucks. This is terrible. I can’t stand this anymore.

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