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		<title>More than Relief in Your Marriage</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Bob Huizenga]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 16:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Infidelity and Intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication in marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional pain]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[speaking my mind in my marriage]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It is common for you as the distancing spouse to believe that to save the marriage or break the impasse, you must settle. You must cave in. You must accommodate. You must swallow and “be nice.” You must meet his/her &#8230; <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2013/05/14/more-than-relief-in-your-marriage/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>It is common for you as the <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2013/05/11/is-the-distancing-spouse-a-bad-person/">distancing spouse</a> to believe that to save the marriage or break the impasse, you must settle. You must cave in. You must accommodate. You must swallow and “be nice.” You must meet his/her needs. You must work on the marriage. You must express caring. You must “come back.”</p>
<p>Sorry, but that just will not work. Oh yeah, it may seem like it offers relief. And, it may. But the relief will only be temporary and you will not create as sustainable <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2013/01/14/you-truly-want-love-in-your-marriage/">loving marriage</a> and walk hand in hand forever.</p>
<p>You can speak your voice – however uncomfortable that may sound at this point.</p>
<p>And you want to speak your voice in a way that honors you and your spouse.</p>
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