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		<title>Holiday Tip #13: Give</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Bob Huizenga]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2010 12:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Learn how to cope with the pain of infidelity or a troubled marriage during the holidays by giving. <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2010/12/23/holiday-tip-13/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>13. Give</strong></p>
<p>This is another strategy to get beyond your preoccupation with areas of your life you cannot control and <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/optin/marital-crisis1.pdf">generates pain</a>.</p>
<p>How can you give? How can your family give? Whom can you give to?</p>
<p>Serve at soup kitchen? Visit stricken family? Food pantry? What service organizations in your town could use your help?</p>
<p>Do more than give money. Give your time. Give your energy. Enter into the lives of those who could use a friend or helping hand.</p>
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