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		<title>Is the Distancing Spouse a Bad Person?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Bob Huizenga]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 21:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Often the distancing spouse is viewed as the “bad” person. You are perhaps fearful that others look at you and see you as not “trying” to make the marriage or relationship work. You may hear frequently from your spouse or &#8230; <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2013/05/11/is-the-distancing-spouse-a-bad-person/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Often the <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2012/12/09/help-for-the-emotionally-distant-spouse-2/">distancing spouse</a> is viewed as the “bad” person.</p>
<p>You are perhaps fearful that others look at you and see you as not “trying” to make the marriage or relationship work. You may hear frequently from your spouse or s/he may imply that s/he is giving all the effort, is <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/affair-articlesdrbobmarital_infidelity_recovery.htm">working on the relationship</a> and you are not.</p>
<p>Labels may be attached to you: aloof, uncaring, insensitive, remote, angry, sullen, passive-aggressive, self-centered, and stubborn, to name a few.</p>
<p>Have you heard any of those terms or others cast in your direction?</p>
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