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		<title>17 Conditions I Want That Will Create an Emotional Connection</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Bob Huizenga]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 16:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Distance]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Learn 17 ways to create an emotional connection with your spouse or partner. <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/03/21/17-conditions-i-want-that-will-create-an-emotional-connection/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Following are 17 conditions that should be met in order to create a strong, unbreakable, emotional connection with your spouse or lover.</p>
<p>1. I want to have respect, and not insult or speak sarcastically when I feel <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/surviving-infidelity/cheating-spouse-depression-anger-grief.htm">anger towards my spouse</a>.</p>
<p>2. I want to express my anger truthfully and respectfully.</p>
<p>3. I want to act like an adult, not a child, when I&#8217;m upset.</p>
<p>4. I want to listen carefully to my partner&#8217;s point of view when we disagree.</p>
<p>5. I want to avoid pushing my spouse&#8217;s buttons.</p>
<p>6. I want to apologize if I&#8217;ve blown it.</p>
<p>7. I want to admit my mistakes and apologize for negative consequences.</p>
<p>8. I want to honor my spouse and not patronize.</p>
<p>9. I want us to resolve problems quickly and easily and learn from them.</p>
<p>10. I want to value my relationship more than my need to be right.</p>
<p>11. I want to do everything to contribute to our <a href="https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/downloads/checklist2.pdf">relationship success</a>.</p>
<p>12. I want to trust my partner in doing his/her best to succeed.</p>
<p>13. I want to support and encourage my partner to reach his/her goals.</p>
<p>14. I want to find satisfaction in making his/her life easier and more enjoyable.</p>
<p>15. I want to be able to collaborate when it&#8217;s important, not compete.</p>
<p>16. I want to be comfortable with how our common interests fit.</p>
<p>17. I want to have a balance between being close and independent.</p>
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