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From my experience, most cheaters intuitively know that their affair relationship is temporary. They don’t trust that relationship, and shouldn’t, since it’s based on deception: i.e. if I marry him/her, s/he will probably do the same thing to me (cheat.)
Also, the wounded spouse is often the “rock” in the relationship, providing a point of stability. The cheating spouse knows that, and needs that. The affair relationship does not provide that.
Those are a couple reasons… off the top of my head. Thanks for asking.
]]>Thank you for all your tips. They have helped me fight through my wife’s emotional affair and given me good insights how to help the visitors to my site. I regularly refer my visitors to your resources. I have always been a person that has self-reflected so your tips on making distinctions and mind shifts are concepts that make a lot of sense.
There has been something I have wonder about that maybe you could help me with.
Why do you think most cheaters stay in a relationship? (Especially if they have been cheating for awhile?) Why not just run off with their “angel”?
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