postpass2 Comments on: How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Lies? https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/08/26/how-do-i-stop-obsessing-about-the-lies/ How to Survive Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs: Find the Help, Advice and Coaching Your Marriage Needs. Sat, 02 Apr 2016 06:39:46 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 By: Becky Benjamin https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/08/26/how-do-i-stop-obsessing-about-the-lies/#comment-106107 Sat, 02 Apr 2016 06:39:46 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/?p=2071#comment-106107 What if you find your whole relationship has been a lie? I am married to a liar a thief a serial cheater a man who replaced what he felt for me and gave it to hohos he bought on street corners . His whole life he has been a liar and a thief a conman and I mean from 5 years old . He has scary personality disorders and he has shown me the cruel nasty monster he chose to be . His continued deception has been the betrayal that has shut me off from seeing/accepting what he does as really him showing me love . How can he call it love when his lies have destroyed every bit of trust I ever had in him being honest with me. 37 years ago 4-3-79 I met my husband honestly if I could go back I would tell myself to run like the hounds of hell were chasing me living with his lies have changed how I see him permanently. How do you kiss and make love and say I love you when you are out chasing sewer rats to cheat with I see his “love” is sold cheaply . Mine love seems too expensive for him honesty is too expensive for him.

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By: Darrin https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/08/26/how-do-i-stop-obsessing-about-the-lies/#comment-105348 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 15:33:59 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/?p=2071#comment-105348 I really appreciate all you do and would really find it helpful to look into Skype Cheating along with using hidden apps to hide all of these actions from their spouse!! I truly believe Woman are deeper involved in these then men.

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By: Walter Drake https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/08/26/how-do-i-stop-obsessing-about-the-lies/#comment-105228 Fri, 04 Mar 2016 20:47:53 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/?p=2071#comment-105228 Whenever I think about lies or people talk to me about how lies in others bother them, I always profer the phrase, “You will never get the truth from a liar”. This puts the focus on the liar and not you.

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