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	Comments on: Getting Him/Her to &#8220;Talk&#8221; Part 2	</title>
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		By: Busy		</title>
		<link>https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/06/21/getting-himher-to-talk-part-2/#comment-264267</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2021 04:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My husband just stone walls and refuses to talk period. He lives in my basement and refuses to leave while messaging call girls and porn stars. We have 4 children. 2 are at home with the youngest 17. The 3 oldest have pretty much disowned him. I guess I only have the divorce option left. I so hoped he would come around but he just avoids everyone except his phone.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband just stone walls and refuses to talk period. He lives in my basement and refuses to leave while messaging call girls and porn stars. We have 4 children. 2 are at home with the youngest 17. The 3 oldest have pretty much disowned him. I guess I only have the divorce option left. I so hoped he would come around but he just avoids everyone except his phone.</p>
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		By: Carol Kauffman		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carol Kauffman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2016 17:50:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In my 6 years being immersed in the infidelity recovery world, I have never heard of a marriage becoming stronger by ignoring the elephant in the room, or worse, trying to shove that big old stinky thing under the rug hoping the huge bump won&#039;t be noticed;-) let alone tripped over every day! Peggy Vaughn, author of the now classic Monogamy Myth, strongly advised couples to leave no stone unturned. My H and I have now clocked easily over 3000 hours of conversation in the last 6 years over his repeated infidelities. However it&#039;s the way we communicated that moved us forward or set us back. Sue Johnson&#039;s Hold Me Tight and John Gottman&#039;s books are excellent guides. If you are a betrayed wife, I would also highly recommend Good Husband, Great Marriage by Robert Alter. It was this book that really helped my H see the light, as he had been somewhat verbally abusive. Good luck to all of you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my 6 years being immersed in the infidelity recovery world, I have never heard of a marriage becoming stronger by ignoring the elephant in the room, or worse, trying to shove that big old stinky thing under the rug hoping the huge bump won&#8217;t be noticed;-) let alone tripped over every day! Peggy Vaughn, author of the now classic Monogamy Myth, strongly advised couples to leave no stone unturned. My H and I have now clocked easily over 3000 hours of conversation in the last 6 years over his repeated infidelities. However it&#8217;s the way we communicated that moved us forward or set us back. Sue Johnson&#8217;s Hold Me Tight and John Gottman&#8217;s books are excellent guides. If you are a betrayed wife, I would also highly recommend Good Husband, Great Marriage by Robert Alter. It was this book that really helped my H see the light, as he had been somewhat verbally abusive. Good luck to all of you.</p>
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		By: ron Smith		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ron Smith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2016 15:49:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Maybe its best to not talk about the affair? My wife says its over don&#039;t talk about it. Ron]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe its best to not talk about the affair? My wife says its over don&#8217;t talk about it. Ron</p>
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