postpass2 Comments on: Types of Affairs: Affair #1 – My Marriage Made Me Do It https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/03/25/types-of-affairs-affair-1-my-marriage-made-me-do-it/ How to Survive Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs: Find the Help, Advice and Coaching Your Marriage Needs. Tue, 01 Nov 2016 17:45:57 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 By: sahel https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/03/25/types-of-affairs-affair-1-my-marriage-made-me-do-it/#comment-110443 Tue, 01 Nov 2016 17:45:57 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=404#comment-110443 When you have a cheater man
I beleive you cant change his mind
Instade of changing him see if you are really happy with the present situation ?

]]> By: Susan Pettyjohn https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/03/25/types-of-affairs-affair-1-my-marriage-made-me-do-it/#comment-110013 Fri, 07 Oct 2016 04:31:15 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=404#comment-110013 In reply to Charlie.

You are lucky not to be married to this man. He is already not only cheating on you, but not even bothering to cover his tracks. Don’t worry about typing his cheating, lose him and find somebody worthy of you. I’m married ti a man I always suspected of cheating. For the past six yrs he had been having an affair with an hispanic woman seven yrs.older than me.We are still together, but it has been a long and difficult path. Going through a separation was the hardest thing I have ever faced. I made it with help from BFFTA and my sister’s unfailing support.

Best of luck to you,
Susan Pettyjohn

]]> By: Tammy Griffith https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/03/25/types-of-affairs-affair-1-my-marriage-made-me-do-it/#comment-106184 Tue, 05 Apr 2016 20:45:30 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=404#comment-106184 My husband was trying to help a woman who was going through a bad time in her marriage because she had cheated on her husband. He started texting her sometimes they would text 400 times a day. I confronted him on Oct 23 and he said nothing was going on but I could tell by his face he had already went to far. Then I caught him at her apartment on Nov 23. He still denied it and she admitted it on Nov 24, then he admitted it. I caught him again in Dec and Jan. Even after he told me he wouldn’t see her again. He lied to his grown children over and over as well. She is 19 years younger than him. I filed for divorce and he finally came clean on everything and it was worse than I thought. I put a recorder in his pick up and now I have the things they said to each other stuck in my head. I don’t know which affair type it is but I do know he is scared to grow old and thinks he has to keep up with his boys. He works out as much as he can to maintain his body. I just don’t know.

]]> By: Charlie https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2011/03/25/types-of-affairs-affair-1-my-marriage-made-me-do-it/#comment-679 Mon, 12 Sep 2011 01:02:55 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=404#comment-679 I have a question. I am not married, and due to job contraints, he lives in NC I live in FL …. will the book STILL help me SAVE the relationship? Seeing as I cannot ‘check’ on his lies (which I’ve caught him in several already) and he is not being transparent with me. Although today he sent me a text : I do want to start over and this will be tough for us.

I don’t know how long the affair was going on, but I ‘discovered’ it on June 24th. confronted him on it on July 1st (as he was out of the county until then) First he denied it – stating he thought the clothes he had put in a plastic bag in the corner of the toy room in his 5th wheel were mine [although size 42DD bra (I wear 38D) and size 12 capri pants (that I would not be caught dead in and I wear size 4)
So – would it still be in my best interest to download your ebook to try to save the relationship — having this distance between us ? Appreciate your response.

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