Comments on: Guy Gets Revenge on Wife With Cement Truck

By: Angie

Angie — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 14:53:37 +0000

Interesting. Jealousy, Doubt, and mistrust become an ADDICTION. Look into OCD and unwanted thoughts and you will see many similarities. I have had trouble with OCD and to find my husband cheated IS devestating and I have had to deal with mistrust the same way i’ve dealt with bad unwanted OCD fears/thoughts. REFUSE TO LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF DOUBT.

I know that seems dumb to some, but if you choose to stay, you must refuse to listen. Remember that when you truly do not have the facts, you create FICTIONAL FANTASIES when you assume something bad or think that immediately your spouse is lying.

It probably helps me that I know that he loves me, but it doesn’t help the doubt. BUT I have CHOSEN to believe that he is “clean” now. It is so easy to do “checking” and “analysing” in my brain, but believe me no good comes of it and it PULLS YOU INTO A DOWNWARD SPIRAL. STOP STOP STOP.

It is total act of WILL. Yes, I have bad days, but they lessen with time. If you choose to stay in a relationship, I mean REALLY WANT TO STAY WITH YOUR SPOUSE, you MUST CHOOSE TO BELIEVE. It can be hard at first, but the more you practice belief, it does get easier with time. It’s been 4 months for me, and it fades more and more each day. IF you don’t, it will drive you crazy.

this video shows PERFECTLY how this guy’s FICTIONAL FANTASY got the best of him.

By: penne

penne — Mon, 04 Apr 2011 11:04:42 +0000

Sad truth is once someone lies repeatedly and is found out you can never really trust them again. There’s always that little nagging voice inside saying maybe his nice words are not true either

By: Chris

Chris — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 07:31:11 +0000

Made me laugh on a gloom filled morning. I did something like that (nothing like as extreme) not as revenge but in an attempt to de-stabilize. Didn’t work though. Was glad I did it after though because it was about then he got her pregnant so it retrospectively became revenge.

By: broken hearted

broken hearted — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 23:31:04 +0000

i wish this video made me laugh or big joy to my heart.. i am just crushed. although our “marriage is saved,” I don’t believe anything he says or does. I question every phone call and text message. I’ve lost all sense of trust. I miss living a worry free life. I am numb all over and my stomach churns non stop. my heart is bleeding and my mind is racing. i cannot believe he did this to me. what happened to owning up to the truth and just saying i don’t want to be with you anymore. he tells me he loves but i don’t believe him. how do i know he is still not talking to her? what proof do i have? how can i ever trust again?

i want to leave him but i have precious children and i don’t want to punish them because of his stupid mistake. i am stuck in a rut. i have to put a smile on my face and act like i “forgave” to move on with life. i guess being divorced has it’s challenges, so might as well stay. at least my kids are happy. i give up all hope of every trusting or loving deeply again.

if someone out there got through this, please let me know. i have no hope .. no hope.. :( i wanna sleep agian, eat agian, laugh again, love again. it’s been one month from the day of discovery and the pain is as sharp as ever :(

By: LANE

LANE — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 13:08:59 +0000

It was cute. But I agree with those who talked about not feeling amused when we’re aching and struggling from a broken heart. After 6 months to the day of finding out about my spouse’s year-long affair, I’m beating myself up for having “taken” my spouse back and myself returning to the marriage.

I believe there has not been a total break from ending the relationship with “the other person”. Plenty of clues, clever and crafty “explanations” being a damn good liar and broken promises to reform and return to the marriage in full force lead me to interpret all these “signals” and accord myself the right to “jump to conclusions”. But I charge neutral, knowing I have my deadline in mine (end of this year) to re-evaluate where we are. I don’t really have hope.

They say miracles can happen. We’ll see if it’s true for me here. I’ll keep trying to laugh when all I want to do is cry. On to the next video.

By: Missy

Missy — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 21:55:58 +0000

I agree with Mark. It is funny! I’m afraid that I am revengeful and would do the same if I had a truck load of cement! Serves the wife right–he caught her in the arms of another man! It’s not as if the other man had a choke hold on her and she could not get away. I put the blame on my husband for his one night stand. He is old enough and smart enough to say NO!!!

By: Mark

Mark — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 20:15:29 +0000

Its funny. For those of you taking it too serious – get over it! Not only get over taking slapstick video’s too literally, but get over being too sensitive. Yes infidelity hurts. It s#@%$, but you have to breathe, live, laugh and eventually love.
Thanks

By: Corryn

Corryn — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 19:07:54 +0000

I wish I knew where the OW lived I would probably do something stupid too:) I really do dream about it but dont do anything as I believe in my hearts that God will not let it go un-noticed. I really am trying to believe that what we reap we sow!! Its just all so hard to stand back and let it take its natural course!!

By: knotit

knotit — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 16:06:09 +0000

yep get the facts.

By: mary

mary — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 14:52:59 +0000

Yeas ago, one of my friends caught her husband, found out where the other woman lived…and drove over to her house. Then she deliberately smashed her car into her husbands car…out in front of the other woman’s home. The husband and other woman came running out of the house to see the crash

(I must admit a part of me enjoyed hearing about her revenge)

Anyway, they eventually saved their marriage.