postpass2 Comments on: What Type of Affair Is It? https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/ How to Survive Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs: Find the Help, Advice and Coaching Your Marriage Needs. Tue, 13 Nov 2018 20:14:56 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 By: marie https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-128926 Tue, 13 Nov 2018 20:14:56 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-128926 In reply to Marty.

you then are one in a few special guys out there wished I met you before I made my mistake. I would not be here hurt and wondering what the heck I did wrong to be betrayed with one of the biggest drunk doped up whore in town.

]]> By: Marci https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-119903 Tue, 26 Dec 2017 17:51:32 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-119903 In reply to Kevin.

I wish you the best and I will pray for you. I am trying to work things out with my husband of 10 years. The hardest part for me is the fact that I was so happy, and I thought he was too. I trusted full heartedly and now even the best of times together I have to wonder if he REALLY IS happy or cheating again. It just hurts my heart and has been emotionally and physically draining on me. SO let’s pray for healing for both of our marriages.

]]> By: Jimmy https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-117300 Thu, 07 Sep 2017 15:34:51 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-117300 Men like to brag about their conquests. Women prefer to conciel. My wife has had affairs thruout our 32 years. She has denied each affair, but I have confirmed her infidelity. I have always been faithful.

]]> By: Taurus77 https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-114574 Tue, 23 May 2017 16:56:39 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-114574 In reply to JBA.

So sorry to hear that. Sounds like he doesn’t like the loss of control that comes with you filingbfir divorce. Hold your ground. You deserve better.

]]> By: Kevin https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-111986 Wed, 18 Jan 2017 18:31:18 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-111986 I am a man that has spent 13 years providing and giving the world to my wife! Finding out that she has been having an affair with a guy at work after his wife called me at work! Finding out about this has made me really think about what I have done wrong and why she failed to honor me as her husband. Here I am working my life away to give her everything she desired. I know that I’m not perfect, but I sure the heck didn’t deserve this. I’m a good man and husband. See – women are just as bad and capable of affairs as men. This is not a gender issue. I understand the pain and hardening that a person goes through as I’m living with it while doing my best to fix my marriage ( if it’s possible)!!!

]]> By: Mark https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-111953 Mon, 16 Jan 2017 16:53:07 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-111953 In reply to JBA.

I am one of those men that won’t cheat. Didn’t stop my wife from cheating though.

]]> By: Scott https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-109495 Fri, 02 Sep 2016 03:49:29 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-109495 In reply to JBA.

C’moon … stop man bashing … As many women cheat as do men … You just don’t hang out with men (like me) who would tell you that women are sh+theads too. It isn’t gender, it’s society … The entire population is inundated with narcissists … Just saying …
Scott

]]> By: Scott https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-109494 Fri, 02 Sep 2016 03:43:40 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-109494 In reply to Jennifer.

Hold on there, Jen … First, no one else is responsible for you … You are … We’re all grown-ups … Be grown up … You want to be confident? Only care about what you think of your self-worth, then think great about yourself and abilities … Shazaamm … You are self-confident. All of us (yes, me too) need to get one thing straight … Infidelity in MARRIAGE is above 50%, right? So, of every 100 married people (50/50 m/f), at LEAST 50 are cheaters, and likely more because in some of the 50 marriages, BOTH are cheaters. Put simply, odds are that whomever we form a relationship with is more likely than not a cheater. Armed with that knowledge, pursue but be wary …. Grow up, life is a challenge, rise to it or slink away into a cave. Good luck … just saying we’ve all got to stop being so surprised that the majority of people (50+%) are just sh+theads …. :-)
Scott

]]> By: Marty https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-220 Thu, 08 Apr 2010 14:35:53 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-220 In a way I understand what you’re saying. After all, that is the stereotype in our society…than men are cheaters. However, they are cheating with somebody. Sometimes that somebody is married as well. I am a man whose wife has committed infidelities for much of our 15 year marriage. I just want to say that it goes both ways. I sometimes feel like I’m one of the few (of either sex) who is actually capable of “keeping it my pants”.

]]> By: JBA https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/17/what-type-of-affair-is-it/#comment-219 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 22:11:21 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=47#comment-219 BTW, I too feel that men are not trustworthy and wonder if there are any men out there who won’t cheat. Almost every day I hear about another couple torn apart by a cheating husband, fiance, boyfriend. My Father cheated on my Mother and I have lots of girlfriends in the same boat.

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