postpass2 Comments on: What if S/he Continues Seeing the OP? https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/ How to Survive Infidelity and Extramarital Affairs: Find the Help, Advice and Coaching Your Marriage Needs. Tue, 16 Dec 2014 15:38:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.8 By: dark https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-213 Sat, 19 Jun 2010 22:05:12 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-213 After listening to the tape I really needed to ask my self that very important question ” Do I really, truly want to be with someone who has cheated on me” and it’s scary knowing the answer is no. But I want to be happy again with me and be able to trust my judgment again. It hard sometimes, but I have to move on, somehow.

]]> By: Tozovac https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-212 Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:58:31 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-212 If she/he continues to see OP the go away. Don’t get her/him another chance, save your pride and dignity. Don’t call for children, money, bla, bla… Just go away, even with children, and look for love in another person.

]]> By: betty https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-211 Mon, 14 Sep 2009 21:33:48 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-211 my husband and i separeted last Dec.08 and have reconciled since Feb,09 in Dec,i planted a recorder in my home because i knew he was seeing someone which he was dening for 8or 9 mths. but since i have returned i live on eggshells cause she lives in the same town [small town] this is a hard pill to swallow,but i have not thrown her name once since were back, but i’m starting to suspect something is going on again,he keeps his cell phone on him like its part of his body, sex has gone awol,he says its him not me,i feel manipulated again.how do i confront him without proof? someone please help i really want my marriage to work.34 years

]]> By: C https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-210 Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:27:50 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-210 I am exactly what you described in this video. I am constantly checking phone logs and tracking him. It takes a lot of energy from me because I am afraid of what I might see. I have not found any contact since I was informed. I am going to have to get control. It is affecting everything. Thanks for the advice!

]]> By: Katia https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-208 Thu, 20 Aug 2009 00:01:15 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-208 I learned that a cheater is not worth it. My advise is to move on with your life. Once a cheater, always a cheater! Don’t waste your time trying to rebuild a death marriage. I am happily divorced, and affair free!

]]> By: di https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-207 Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:41:33 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-207 These videos are very helpful. This week I started concentrating on me. He continues to see the OW so I am moving on. I agree that a triangle does not work I feel I need to think of my children. I need to heal and move on. This too shall pass…………

]]> By: Nicki https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-206 Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:19:23 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-206 These videos & the book are really helping me now. I’ve been going thru a hystericl phase, where I thought my life wasnt worth living. Now I’m going to take control & tell my husband that I’m going to get on with my life, with or without him, & hopefully he’ll begin to realise that he’s made a huge mistake.

]]> By: dian https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-205 Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:13:26 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-205 Very good advice. I told my husband a year ago, “I know you haven’t made up your mind, but if you are going to be with me, you need to stop seeing her and calling her. You know, I love you, but, I don’t want any part of this triangle business. I would like to be with you, but I want all of you. If you can’t do that, I don’t want any part of you. I’ll be fine without you. I’m stronger than you think. In the meantime, I’m not gonna go out looking for someone else, at least until we’re divorced. We need to set a good example for our children.” In tears, he aggreed with my statement. I don’t exactly know what it did to him, but I felt very much in control and I really think it had a huge affect on him ending the affair, and my being able to care for myself in the past year. We are still together and getting stronger.

]]> By: Kellie https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-204 Thu, 13 Aug 2009 12:34:22 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-204 Thankyou that is excellent advice and its working for me.. I don’t know what I would have done if I had not discovered your emails and website. Thankyou for giving me the strength to put my life back into my own hands.

]]> By: Janis https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/08/10/what-if-she-continues-seeing-the-op/#comment-203 Tue, 11 Aug 2009 17:35:17 +0000 http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/blog/?p=44#comment-203 This video helped me very much as my spouse will not stop his affair. and I have felt like a crazy person checking cell phone logs, and email all the time. This video helped me gain a sense of composure for my own mind, and helped me understsnd the reasons that I must stay focused on me!

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