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	Comments on: Surviving Infidelity: Should We Have Sex?	</title>
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		By: marc		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2016 00:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I would definitely not have sex until the affair has ended and your spouse has been checked for STDs.  In my case, we continued to have sex and I ended up with the papilloma virus; I must admit that initially I was not aware of the extent of the affair and believed it to be over but I failed to even consider the STD issue.  I find the doctor&#039;s advice in this case to be very poor since STDs are not even mentioned and these are real possibility.  I&#039;ve read that women having affairs are even less likely to use a condom with their affair partner.  Doctor, please do not base your decision as whether spouses should continue to have sex without first detailing the STD issue.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would definitely not have sex until the affair has ended and your spouse has been checked for STDs.  In my case, we continued to have sex and I ended up with the papilloma virus; I must admit that initially I was not aware of the extent of the affair and believed it to be over but I failed to even consider the STD issue.  I find the doctor&#8217;s advice in this case to be very poor since STDs are not even mentioned and these are real possibility.  I&#8217;ve read that women having affairs are even less likely to use a condom with their affair partner.  Doctor, please do not base your decision as whether spouses should continue to have sex without first detailing the STD issue.</p>
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		By: Lani		</title>
		<link>https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/07/30/surviving-infidelity-should-we-have-sex/#comment-104201</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lani]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2016 00:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My husband is in a 2+ yr affair. For now he has shown positive changes to the kids, his work, his attitude and how he treats me. I read your emails and your book and I&#039;m trying hard to stand back. Our sex life has never stopped and seems to get better emotionally. My problem is he continues to vacillate and it seems that I&#039;m loosing respect for myself and him and I&#039;m falling out of love with him. I tried to stop our sex life so many times but he just gets angry and after a few hours he comes following me around and never stops even if it takes days. I don&#039;t understand if hes so in love with this woman what does he want with me. I must admit that after having sex we get closer. But he vacillates and this happens every week. I&#039;m so exhausted and confused. This seems like a revenge affair/ I fell out of love/ My marriage made me do it. (I think). Please help me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband is in a 2+ yr affair. For now he has shown positive changes to the kids, his work, his attitude and how he treats me. I read your emails and your book and I&#8217;m trying hard to stand back. Our sex life has never stopped and seems to get better emotionally. My problem is he continues to vacillate and it seems that I&#8217;m loosing respect for myself and him and I&#8217;m falling out of love with him. I tried to stop our sex life so many times but he just gets angry and after a few hours he comes following me around and never stops even if it takes days. I don&#8217;t understand if hes so in love with this woman what does he want with me. I must admit that after having sex we get closer. But he vacillates and this happens every week. I&#8217;m so exhausted and confused. This seems like a revenge affair/ I fell out of love/ My marriage made me do it. (I think). Please help me.</p>
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		By: Sharon Clarke		</title>
		<link>https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/07/30/surviving-infidelity-should-we-have-sex/#comment-190</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sharon Clarke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 15:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You have to listen to what your heart is telling you. Discovering about my husband&#039;s two affairs on the same day last year was the worst thing that ever happened in my life. I went through feelings I never knew I could feel inside, I am skinny and I lost over thrty pounds during that time. I suggest that before you have sex with that cheating husband both of you need to go and get STD tests, because he could be bringing a disease back to you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have to listen to what your heart is telling you. Discovering about my husband&#8217;s two affairs on the same day last year was the worst thing that ever happened in my life. I went through feelings I never knew I could feel inside, I am skinny and I lost over thrty pounds during that time. I suggest that before you have sex with that cheating husband both of you need to go and get STD tests, because he could be bringing a disease back to you.</p>
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		By: joanne esfahani		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[joanne esfahani]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 21:37:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[thank you. wish I would have known this in he beginning of the problem.  never-the-less this has been helpful]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank you. wish I would have known this in he beginning of the problem.  never-the-less this has been helpful</p>
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		By: Marsha		</title>
		<link>https://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/2009/07/30/surviving-infidelity-should-we-have-sex/#comment-188</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marsha]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 15:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am the wife and the one who committed the infidelity.

Are there any help for me]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am the wife and the one who committed the infidelity.</p>
<p>Are there any help for me</p>
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