Tag Archives: how to deal with infidelity

Normal People Suffer from Infidelity

You really are normal. I often reflect: What about what I do that people find so liberating and helpful? Here’s what I think it is: I help those suffering from marriage crisis to feel normal, that they are not defective, … Continue reading

Posted in Dr. Huizenga's Blog Posts, Emotional Distance, Emotional Infidelity, Infidelity and Intimacy, Infidelity Coaching, Infidelity Marriage, Infidelity Reasons, Rebuilding the Marriage or Relationship, Relationship Communication, Signs of Infidelity, Surviving Infidelity, Types of Affairs | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

You are Not a Bad Person

This continues my speaking to the distant or pulling away spouse or partner… Often the distancing spouse is viewed as the “bad” person. You are perhaps fearful that others look at you and see you as not “trying” to make … Continue reading

Posted in Emotional Distance, Emotional Infidelity, Infidelity Marriage, Infidelity Pain, Rebuilding the Marriage or Relationship, Relationship Communication, Surviving Infidelity, Types of Affairs | Tagged , , , , | 10 Comments

Distance is a Way to Cope

This continues my speaking to the distant or pulling away spouse or partner… The intent of your pulling away or distancing is not malicious or evil. Your tendency to back away is merely a way for you to cope with … Continue reading

Posted in Emotional Distance, Emotional Infidelity, Infidelity Marriage, Infidelity Pain, Surviving Infidelity | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Mid-Life Crisis: What It Can Do to Your Marriage

Mid-life crisis and your marriage. For a lot of relationships, a mid-life crisis could lead to irrational and bad decisions regarding infidelity and other people, and eventually, to divorce. Extramarital affairs are a possibility in every relationship or marriage, no … Continue reading

Posted in Infidelity Pain, Infidelity Reasons, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Surviving Infidelity, Types of Affairs, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Extramarital Affair: Should You Stay in the Marriage?

When you see yourself being unable to decide whether or not to stay in the marriage upon discovering your partner’s extramarital affair, ask yourself if it really is what you want to do or if there’s some other reason why … Continue reading

Posted in Infidelity Pain, Infidelity Reasons, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Surviving Infidelity, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

After Infidelity: Fixing the Marriage by Identifying Barriers

What are the things you need to know and understand to help you fix your marriage after infidelity? What issues, problems and barriers do you need to deal with? And what should you deal with first? Going through an extramarital … Continue reading

Posted in Infidelity Pain, Infidelity Reasons, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Surviving Infidelity, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Barriers in Saving the Marriage: How Holding on to the Past Hurts Your Present

Does your past really affect your efforts in saving the marriage? How? Holding on to past hurts and problems is never a good idea. This is because no matter how noble your purpose is to leave everything in the past … Continue reading

Posted in Infidelity Pain, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Surviving Infidelity, Trust Building, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Day After Valentine’s Day: What Really Happens in Unhappy Relationships?

Here’s the truth of what really happens in unhappy relationships on the day after Valentine’s Day. An article in USA today reported that online websites that offer free memberships are to people who are married and are in unhappy relationships, … Continue reading

Posted in Emotional Infidelity, Infidelity Pain, Infidelity Reasons, Internet Cheating, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Emotional Affairs: The Worst Kind of Heartbreak

Sexual affairs or emotional affairs? What would you rather have to deal with? When you find out that your partner has been having an extramarital affair, the first thing you want to know, especially if you are a woman, is … Continue reading

Posted in Emotional Infidelity, Infidelity Pain, Infidelity Reasons, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Surviving Infidelity, Types of Affairs, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Sexual Addiction in Extramarital Affairs: What are the Facts? Part 2

In the first part of this series about sexual addiction and infidelity, we discussed briefly how they affect each other and listed down three of the most common facts revolved around them. On this second part, we will point out … Continue reading

Posted in Infidelity Pain, Infidelity Reasons, Relationship Communication, Relationships: Marriage, Relationships: Sex and Intimacy, Trust Building, Types of Affairs, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment