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Normal People Suffer from Infidelity

You really are normal. I often reflect: What about what I do that people find so liberating and helpful? Here’s what I think it is: I help those suffering from marriage crisis to feel normal, that they are not defective, … Continue reading

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Infidelity Details: Reasons Why They’re Kept Hidden

Most people want to know every single one of the infidelity details of what happened when they discover that their partner was involved in an extramarital affair. When, where, why and what happened? We all have our reasons for wanting … Continue reading

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Trust After Infidelity: Can You Do It?

The most common problem that people face once they find out that their spouse has cheated on them is deciding whether or not they are capable of forgiving their spouse and, if they do, if they are able to trust … Continue reading

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Extramarital Affair: Should You Stay in the Marriage?

When you see yourself being unable to decide whether or not to stay in the marriage upon discovering your partner’s extramarital affair, ask yourself if it really is what you want to do or if there’s some other reason why … Continue reading

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Barriers in Saving the Marriage: How Holding on to the Past Hurts Your Present

Does your past really affect your efforts in saving the marriage? How? Holding on to past hurts and problems is never a good idea. This is because no matter how noble your purpose is to leave everything in the past … Continue reading

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Helping a Friend in an Infidelity Crisis: What to Do

What can you do to help a friend who is the middle of an infidelity crisis? Here are a few things that have come up over the past years: They want someone to listen to them speak out what they … Continue reading

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Jealousy: A Tool for Stronger Relationships?

What creates stronger relationships? Are there things you can do or practice that will help you and your partner create one? You will be able to find all sorts of different relationship advice posted on the internet that promises to … Continue reading

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Is it possible to be able to trust after infidelity? The following is a summary of a session with a client who is finding it difficult to trust after infidelity. She talks about some of the things she is dealing … Continue reading

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Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Holding on to the Silver Lining

This is an excerpt from one of the coaching sessions Dr. Robert Huizenga had with a client who discovered that her husband had an affair while he was on active duty during the war. After finding out about my husband’s … Continue reading

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Infidelity Feelings: Holding On To Your Feelings During Infidelity

How Do You Learn to “Hold Your Infidelity Feelings” when confronted with the devastation of an extramarital affair? Most people have a hard time upon discovering that their partners are engaged in an extramarital affair. All these thoughts and feelings … Continue reading

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