Tag Archives: communication in marriage

Marriage Killers

I recently asked my readers to respond to a survey and in one word answer to the question: “What, in your opinion, is the number 1 factor that kills a marriage?” I received hundreds of responses, but for the sake … Continue reading

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More than Relief in Your Marriage

It is common for you as the distancing spouse to believe that to save the marriage or break the impasse, you must settle. You must cave in. You must accommodate. You must swallow and “be nice.” You must meet his/her … Continue reading

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How To Get Him/Her To “Talk”

Engaging the other typically means, “We gotta talk.” And, “talking” usually means “getting at issues” that are bothering one or the other. It means there is a problem, as in a lack of understanding or lack of intimacy or distance … Continue reading

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17 Conditions I Want That Will Create an Emotional Connection

Learn 17 ways to create an emotional connection with your spouse or partner. Continue reading

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Guy Gets Revenge on Wife With Cement Truck

A hilarious video that will make you realize how important it is to get your facts straight before taking revenge on your suspected cheating spouse. Continue reading

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Healing from Infidelity

Healing and recovery from infidelity or an extramarital affair has twists and turns and moments of insight and shifts. Continue reading

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How Do I Get Him/Her to Talk?

A person confronted with surviving infidelity is often confronted with the task of getting the cheating spouse to talk more. Dr. Huizenga – the infidelity coach – gives tips on opening lines of communication. Continue reading

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