Surviving Infidelity Series: One Marriage Surviving Infidelity

I took a week off, talked to my boss who was also amazingly a catholic lay priest, I spent time with my kids and also alot of time home crying, I think that was good because when I was other places I had to pretend and life sucked and pretending it did not was hell I had my old dog who was a comfort, I did not enjoy his relatives and I hated all of the people that wanted to tell me their troubles and experiences. Wow I never thought that would bring out all of the old war stories from people. I think one friend that was concerned about me would have been amazing but most people wanted to relive their experiences. I had one piece of advice it would be spend some time alone to grieve and don’t think it is not ok because it is so necessary. I cried more than I had ever cried in my whole life and I learned it is OK I spent to much time imaging how great they must have thought things were and way to much time worrying about her, frankly screw her (of course he did, bazaar) but yo know what I mean. Who cares about her, I did confront the other women which was great in some weird way She was not beautiful amazing or anything except available and willing to settle for a few hours from a married man because she was pathetic. Do not spent to much time worrying about her (or him) because anyone that would settle for a married man or woman is a looser. Take care of you, I did not, I gained 40 pounds and a thousand wrinkles, but now 2 year later I have my marriage back and my husband is so attentive. I also have a strength and a resolve to never be treated with indifference and taken for granted again. I dearly wish that it had never happened but frankly I do not think there would be any other way of breaking the proud arrogant self-righteous man my husband had become. Now he is so different I wish you the best and stick up for yourself, don’t let anyone put limits on your needs now and think of yourself first probably for the first time in your life.

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