Surviving Infidelity Series: Infidelity as a Building Block to a Better Marriage

I had an emotional break down. For the 1st 5 days I didn’t even know were I was, this was not my Husbands 1st affair. But we had moved to a new state-bought my grandparents home, I thought it was a new beginning. When I did come out of my breakdown I was angry and determined to make it again. How does someone you love and trust do this to you?…they don’t. I was charging neutral when my husband did call…he was not going to ever bring me down like he did. I also let this affair continue…I knew my Husband alot better then this heartless loser did. We had been married 25 years. I talked it out with my closest friends over and over again…that helped more then they will ever understand. My Parents and Sons were also an amazing support system. Talking is a very good way to let the anger and hurt out. Now almost a year later we are talking again…and have even discussed getting back together. Affairs are not the end to anyone’s marriage…sometimes it’s a building block to something better. Believe in yourself is also very important. Don’t let someone take that from you…build on it.

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