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Top infidelity and extramarial affair questions


This is the second part in Dr. Huizenga top 10 Q&As that most people ask when they experience infidelity or an extramarital affair in their marriage. Watch the videos and get your questions answered by the Infidelity Coach.

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Surviving Infidelity Top 10 Questions

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Surviving Infidelity Top 10 Questions

I'm creating a video series on The Top 10 Questions People Ask and the Top 10 Questions People SHOULD Ask on Surviving Infidelity.

I'm listing a few of the videos below, which are on my blog. Choose which video you want to watch (you certainly can view more than one!) and if you feel compelled to comment, or something resonates with you, make sure you leave a comment below the video.

Again, I'm continually impressed by what you learn from each other and the degree to which reading others' comments can generate hope for healing and change.

Surviving Infidelity: Should We Have Sex?

I answer the question, "should We Have Sex?" in video #7 of his Top 10 Q&As for Surviving Infidelity.

I discuss the heightened intensity of sexual arousal in three particular kinds of affairs, and give affirmation for the sexual experience – if it's mutually desired.

I also give three scenarios, again revolving around different types of affairs, in which the setting of boundaries and abstaining from sexual intercourse is suggested.

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How Do I Confront My Spouse about the Affair?

How you confront your spouse about the affair depends on the type of affair facing you.

I describe the radical difference in confronting the "I Need to Prove My Desirability" type of affair as opposed to the "I Don't Want to Say No" type of affair.

I also give 3 specific tips on how to confront your spouse about the affair for the other 5 types of affairs.

The importance of consistency and charging neutral is also explained.

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Will I Ever Trust Again?

In the 9th tape of this 20 tape series on surviving infidelity I present the often asked or implied question, "Will I ever trust again?"

I approaches this question from two directions.

This question may mean, "will I ever trust my cheating spouse again?"

We look at the time frame for rebuilding trust and the ways to rebuild that trust.

A second component addressed is, Will I ever be able to to love again?

I give 3 components fro rebuilding your capacity to trust your self in entering a healthy relationship.

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What if S/he Continues Seeing the OP?

Coping with a cheating spouse who continues seeing the other person, even though the affair is in the open, often involves a high level of ambivalence.

I describe that ambivalence and offers powerful ways to verbalize that ambivalence to the cheating spouse.

As well, I talk about the importance of shifting the focal point and asking yourself THE question.

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Aug 11 , 2009

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