You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole.
Trying to influence the direction of an affair with strategies and tactics that are appropriate and designed for another type of affair is worse than futile. You efforts may cause more harm than good.
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What do you do if your spouse, with the affair exposed, continues seeing the other person?
Ambivalence often rules.
Get tips on how to verbally confront the ambivalence.
But, first start with THE question.
In my video series on surviving infidelity I answer the question, “Will I ever trust again?”
There are a couple ways of looking at this question.
You may be thinking: “will I ever trust my cheating spouse again?”
Or, another component: “Will I ever be able to to love again?”
Don't be in the reactive mode. Ever get caught or stuck in the "circle" and not be able to get out?
I describe a 3 step awareness that helps you move from the reactive mode to exercising your personal power which has a much better chance of influencing the direction of the affair.
