Learn the Signs of a Cheating Spouse with Break Free From the Affair

We asked our readers how their infidelity situation was improved by reading Break Free From the Affair.

Following are just a few of the several responses we received:

• Helps with clarifying some of the underlying issues I am facing. Affirms some of the movement I am craving and deciding to enact. Assures me that I am not the only one who has ever endured this painful experience.
• It definitely made me feel like I was not alone. I am beginning to figure out exactly what it is that I am feeling and how I want to proceed. The knowledge of the affair is still pretty new and I refer to your ebook frequently because it gives me a sense of calm maybe because it makes me feel like I am in control of my reactions.
• The book encourages a positive attitude which is important. It is also comforting to know there are others out there are in my same situation.
• I realized that my partner has a real problem and that it wasn't caused by me. I feel like I now have permission to be happy and strong. By this I mean that I felt like I had to show my husband my pain in order for him to know the reality of my love. I now realize that even though I am very hurt I can be happy again..while still loving him...hope that makes sense.
• Thank you for offering this information..it has given me a breath of fresh air...but I have to admit it makes me feel a little reluctant to have another relationship...if my marriage doesn't work. People are too complicated..lol... thanks!
• This was literally an eye opener for me. My spouse and I have been involved in a couple of physical affairs each that both knew about and in fact accepted and condoned - the classic # 3 "I don't want to say no" affair. You nailed that one to a tee and it forced me to look at myself and why I did that and was OK with her doing it too in spite of what we were doing to the marriage. Then recently my wife became involved in a # 4 "I fell out of love" affair. This was different. I felt a hurt I had not felt before. Arguments started. We have become distant. I tried to convince myself that it was the old pattern and no big deal. But when I read your explanation, I literally got up out of my chair and said WOW about 100 times. Your advice on how to handle this is helping me immensely.

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Cheating is different from infidelity?

Yes, I believe so. Signs of a cheating spouse will be different from signs of infidelity.

In talking to thousands of people embroiled with a cheating spouse or infidelity over the past two plus decades, I've noticed a difference. In our society the word cheating carries different meaning than infidelity.

This is important for someone discerning the signs of a cheating spouse or the signs of infidelity. A person who "cheats" is different from someone who is involved in "infidelity."