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Myths about Infidelity and Affairs are Exposed

Common myths about infidelity and affairs abound. Such myths and misunderstandings get in the way of healing from infidelity and the extramarital affair. Dr. Huizenga looks at 5 common myths.

Also presented are Dr. Huizenga’s live Coaching Tape Series with coaching clients that touches upon the My Marriage Made Me Do It type of affair.



Feature Article
Explode and Implode 5 Powerful Affair Myths

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Support and Guidance
How to deal with the teeth-clinching, locked-jaw frustration of being so close and yet so far

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Feature Article
Explode and Implode 5 Powerful Affair Myths

Affairs are simple. They are about falling out of love with my partner and in love with someone else.

Wrong: Affairs are exceedingly complex. I list 7 different and complex affairs in my e-book.

Affairs include sex.

Wrong. Not all affairs are sexual. Sexual intercourse may ruin one kind.

Affairs are about how love “should be.”

Wrong: Affairs are acts of temporary insanity.

If your spouse has an affair you should throw the bum (bummette) out.

Wrong: 95% of betrayed spouses want to keep the marriage.

Affairs are about falling “in love” with someone else.

Wrong: Affairs have NOTHING to do with love and everything to do with latent personal neediness.


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Free Laser Coaching. Back by Popular Demand The 16 slots for a free 15-minute coaching session with Dr. Huizenga were filled quickly. Plus we had a long waiting list of those who signed up “too late.”

But, don’t fear! We are offering more.

Read on….

FREE Laser coaching… to help you begin…getting up in the morning with a plan and hope for your future, even though infidelity tears at your life.

Free Laser coaching:

  • Ask your question(s) and express your concerns
  • Get clarity, sort out the confusion
  • Get direction, pinpoint what you can constructively and with purpose say and do next
  • Get the time to be heard, acknowledged, validated
  • Think and feel differently about your self and infidelity

Dr. Huizenga is offering FREE 15 minute Laser coaching sessions to the waiting list and the first of those who register for the first time.

Also, the first 16 will receive a FREE Lifetime Membership in Infidelity Insider – the new extensive resource center of infidelity materials and forum.

This is YOUR opportunity to take advantage of Dr Huizenga’s expertise and years of experience and forge a new direction in your life.

This is also your opportunity to help others.

You know the impact of infidelity. You know the confusion. You know the pain. You know the sense of betrayal. You know that you can think of nothing else.

Wouldn’t it be nice to hear others share a similar story and hear an expert walk through that story with him/her and create an ending that serves all?

That’s what we will have. Dr Huizenga is taping these sessions. Don’t fear! Once the session begins to flow, you will lose concern about the taping. These taped sessions will be made available online. This will prove to be a truly invaluable resource for anyone stumbling through infidelity. Yes, you can help. You can contribute.

Not all of the sessions will be placed online. Dr Huizenga will choose the most helpful sessions and place those online. If, after the session, you have serious reservations about the session made public, let Dr Huizenga know and the session will not be published.

We made a couple changes this time in response to feedback. After Becky schedules you, please type out and email to Dr Huizenga a summary of your situation and a couple questions that confront you . Also, if you prefer NOT to use your real name, let Dr. Huizenga know.

Here’s the schedule:

FREE 15 Minute Laser Coaching Schedule
May 8 May 10 May 16 May 18
1:00 pm EST 1:00 pm EST 3:00 pm EST 3:00 pm EST
1:30 pm EST 1:30 pm EST 3:30 pm EST 3:30 pm EST
2:00 pm EST 2:00 pm EST 4:00 pm EST 4:00 pm EST
2:30 pm EST 2:30 pm EST 4:30 pm EST 4:30 pm EST

Here’s all you need to do right now: Send an email to RPlantinga@fountainhillcenter.com, his assistant, Becky, letting her know what time you want. Becky will reply with a confirmation and instructions for the call.

Take advantage of this great opportunity.


Support and Guidance
How to deal with the teeth-clinching, locked-jaw frustration of being so close and yet so farGarrett describes coping with the “My Marriage Made Me Do It” affair.

Her “vile rage” is periodically directed at him.

Control and power are prominent as the two attempt to move ahead. Garrett is usually the pursuer and she withdraws or withholds, which, of course, frustrates Garrett, to say the least.

However, a part of Garrett wants to save the marriage, especially on rare occasions when her barriers fall and he gets a glimpse of the fear underlying the anger.

When Garrett feels like he is being jerked around, which is most of the time, he thinks of taking immediate action, file for divorce and abruptly end the marriage.

Coaching progressed to the difference between resolution and reconciliation and intermediary steps he might possibly take to move ahead with clarity and purpose.

This is a 15 Minute Laser Coaching Session with Dr. Huizenga and Garrett caught LIVE on audio tape.

This tape, other tapes, more tapes to come, free ebook downloads, discounts on Dr. Huizenga’s products and more can be found in the Infidelity Insider.

If you are a Member of the Infidelity Insider log in here using your username and password. I know many of you are members. Membership has shot up to over 1700!

If you are not a Member, I encourage you to register now. Join the 1700 others and not only hear the tape(s) but participate in the forum, download the free ebooks or get a discount on Break Free From the Affair and Marriage Makeover.

There is a small fee of $9.95. That’s around 30 cents a day. I’m experimenting with the price, since the Infidelity Insider is only a few weeks old. I have a suspicion that as the value of the content in Infidelity Insider grows I will jack up the price.

Join others. Get in while the getting in is good!


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Recommended Sites
Please visit these sites for more highly recommended resources: acespy.com

chatcheaters.com

pig-dogs.net

askmaple.com

womansdivorce.com

May 1, 2007

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