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Once a Cheater Always a Cheater!?

Cheating as a Disorder Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!? Those who have never been on the receiving end of infidelity frequently proclaim, “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!” Cheating represents a morally corrupt individual with a touch of character … Continue reading

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21 Life Lessons from an Infidelity Survivor

I have an amazing Infidelity Support Group on Facebook, in which members join to both heal themselves and help others heal. It’s truly a remarkable group of people. From time to time I stumble upon a post that really resonates … Continue reading

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How to Make Your Spouse WANT YOU

By Dr. Bob Huiznega Carolynn sent me a scathing email. :) She was mad at me and yet, I just love Carolynn. You see, I helped her “Charge Neutral” and now her unfaithful husband is begging for her to take … Continue reading

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The #1 Most Powerful Technique to Save Your Marriage and Sanity

You will learn in the next few minutes how to effectively use THE most powerful strategy for quickly diminishing your emotional pain, changing the ground rules for the affair, discerning the emotional investment of your spouse and even, perhaps, bringing … Continue reading

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You’re OK Exactly Where You Are

Part of the healing from infidelity and cheating is being able to “see through” the cheating behavior as the cheating spouse’s problem. Yes, this is easier said than done; especially early in the process of healing and moving on. How … Continue reading

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Marriage advice to Keep on Track to Save Your Marriage

Marriage Advice Saving your Marriage It is difficult to maintain your self respect as you try to save your broken marriage. You easily doubt yourself, your role in the marriage and go through a litany of “what ifs.” You wonder … Continue reading

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Respect and Saving a Broken Marriage

Make Save Your Broken Marriage Respect in a Relationship It’s difficult to maintain your self respect as you try to save your broken marriage. You easily doubt yourself, your role in the marriage and go through a litany of “what … Continue reading

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What to do when your Marriage is Failing

Marriage Crisis Tip What to do when your marriage is failing? Tip #1 focuses on your pain. What do you do with your pain? How do you cope with your pain and hurt during a marriage crisis? This marriage crisis … Continue reading

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Marriage Killers

I recently asked my readers to respond to a survey and in one word answer to the question: “What, in your opinion, is the number 1 factor that kills a marriage?” I received hundreds of responses, but for the sake … Continue reading

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Your Sexiness is a Trap

If you are a female, you may carry the weight of believing you must be sexy. You must be provocative. You must look sexy. You must turn him on. Your breasts, you legs, your abs, your rear become the focus … Continue reading

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