Category Archives: Real Life Infidelity Stories

Real-Life Infidelity Stories: Holding on to the Silver Lining

This is an excerpt from one of the coaching sessions Dr. Robert Huizenga had with a client who discovered that her husband had an affair while he was on active duty during the war. After finding out about my husband’s … Continue reading

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Clues of an Emotional Affair

What are the clues of an emotional affair? There have been plenty of response from people who have gone through the agony of watching their partner go through an emotional affair, and they want to share with everyone some of … Continue reading

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How to Help with Infidelity

Are you trying to provide help with infidelity to a friend or family member? One of the most common questions that friends of people who are in the middle of infidelity crises ask is “what can I do to for … Continue reading

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Sexual Affairs: Not Always Hot

Usually, when you discover that your partner is having an affair, the first thought that pops in your head is your partner having sex with someone else and enjoying it. You imagine their sexual encounters to be the most amazing … Continue reading

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Drawing the Line on Internet Cheating?

Where does one draw the line or cross the line of internet cheating or infidelity. Explore what readers have to say: Why is there so much porn out there! I consider myself to be a very liberal person, but my … Continue reading

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Internet Fantasies and Cheating

More comments from readers. Note the pain and ambivalence in the last reader. The fantasy of it all, and the ease with which one can “pretend” to be anyone at all without face to face contact or daily interactions as … Continue reading

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Discovering Internet Infidelity

More responses from the survey. Leave your comments below, please. My wife has had an ongoing affair that fits the profile of “immature relationship – unfinished business” with a guy she met at a party who “friend-ed” her on Facebook. … Continue reading

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The Power of Internet Cheating

Internet “cheating” is rampant. The tools are many and varied. The results are sometimes sad. I asked my readers to comment on their experience with internet cheating. Here are just a few of the responses: My marriage fell victim to … Continue reading

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Can I Trust Again? Or…Too Much Damage?

This is part 2 of my transcript on trust with Nat. Her second question relates to the amount of damage and her capacity to trust and rebuild. Nat:  Part of that is, is there is a point when there’s been … Continue reading

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Trust Building: Once a Cheater always a Cheater?

I provide webinars for those who read “Break Free From the Affair,” and sometimes record the session. I want to share with you a transcript that answers a frequent question; once a cheater, always a cheater? and a closely related … Continue reading

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