Category Archives: Dr. Huizenga’s Blog Posts

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The Distant Spouse: I Must be Romantic or Sexy

You, as the pulling away spouse, may be requested to be more “romantic” or “sexy.” The request may be direct: “I want you to be more romantic or sexy,” or you pick up from the need system of your spouse … Continue reading

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Signs of a Cheating Spouse: What to Watch For in Your Partner

Studies have shown a growth in the number of people engaged in extramarital affairs, both in men and women. About 80% of individuals have indulged in an affair at some point in their marriage. This may seem like a high … Continue reading

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Drawing the Line on Internet Cheating?

Where does one draw the line or cross the line of internet cheating or infidelity. Explore what readers have to say: Why is there so much porn out there! I consider myself to be a very liberal person, but my … Continue reading

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Internet Fantasies and Cheating

More comments from readers. Note the pain and ambivalence in the last reader. The fantasy of it all, and the ease with which one can “pretend” to be anyone at all without face to face contact or daily interactions as … Continue reading

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Social Media and Cheating

When is the line crossed in social media whereby infidelity or an affair begins? Please read comments from readers and leave a comment. What are they saying about current spouse to others? What is marriage coming to because of easy … Continue reading

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Online Cheating Questions

My survey stirred a great response with many questions. Feel free to leave comments below to some of these questions: I believe that any effort to rekindle old “friendships” or forget new ones online (as by any other means) should … Continue reading

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Stories, Questions and Concerns Regarding Internet Infidelity

Here are more questions and concerns from readers about internet cheating and infidelity. I’d appreciate your comments and opinions regarding the following scenarios (or your own scenario involving internet cheating). How would you answer these questions? Have you experienced internet … Continue reading

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The Power of Internet Cheating

Internet “cheating” is rampant. The tools are many and varied. The results are sometimes sad. I asked my readers to comment on their experience with internet cheating. Here are just a few of the responses: My marriage fell victim to … Continue reading

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How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Lies?

Someone asked about obsessive thinking in my webinar. The transcription of my answer is below: Man:  I keep having to deal with obsessive thinking about the affair. Lies make you go around and around in your head. What do I … Continue reading

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To Stay or Go?

A person asked this question in my webinar: Shall I go or stay when my husband is still with the other woman and is planning to meet her again? Here’s my response: I’m not sure it’s an issue of “Should … Continue reading

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