Author Archives: Dr. Bob Huizenga

How do I Get Rid of Images?

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How do I Get Rid of the Pain?

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Q & A with Dr. Huizenga 4-27-17 Why Cheating Spouse Talks about the Other Person

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Once a Cheater Always a Cheater!?

Cheating as a Disorder Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!? Those who have never been on the receiving end of infidelity frequently proclaim, “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!” Cheating represents a morally corrupt individual with a touch of character … Continue reading

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Infidelity: How Do You Get Rid of the Pain?

I don’t want to go into detail regarding the fact that you feel pain. YOU FEEL the PAIN! It is a given.  It is real. It consumes your days and destroys sleep at night. Hands down, the discovery of infidelity … Continue reading

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8 Questions to Ask Yourself When Struggling with the Pain of Infidelity

A member of my Facebook Infidelity Support Group shared a beautiful post yesterday, in which she has challenged group members to ask themselves some tough, yet important questions. This group member is someone who has come a very long way … Continue reading

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21 Life Lessons from an Infidelity Survivor

I have an amazing Infidelity Support Group on Facebook, in which members join to both heal themselves and help others heal. It’s truly a remarkable group of people. From time to time I stumble upon a post that really resonates … Continue reading

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What Everyone Needs to Know About Sexual Addiction and Infidelity

Most people know that overcoming addictions to food, drugs, alcohol and other substances can be very difficult. Just because it doesn’t involve a food, drug or drink, sex addiction is very misunderstood. In fact, many people scoff at the very … Continue reading

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How to Make Your Spouse WANT YOU

By Dr. Bob Huiznega Carolynn sent me a scathing email. :) She was mad at me and yet, I just love Carolynn. You see, I helped her “Charge Neutral” and now her unfaithful husband is begging for her to take … Continue reading

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The #1 Most Powerful Technique to Save Your Marriage and Sanity

You will learn in the next few minutes how to effectively use THE most powerful strategy for quickly diminishing your emotional pain, changing the ground rules for the affair, discerning the emotional investment of your spouse and even, perhaps, bringing … Continue reading

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