Affair Newsletter – Dealing with Pain of Infidelity: You Are Not Alone

Dealing with Infidelity? You are not alone! Break Free From the Affair has helped thousands going through the pain of infidelity.

Please check out the question and answers below to see how others have transformed their lives using the tools provided in this powerful book.

How was your situation helped by reading Break Free From the Affair?

• The “to do” and “not to do” lists at the back of the book are very practical and helpful. At a confusing time like this it’s good to have some very straight-forward info like this to apply.
• Breaking the ice, it worked superbly.
• Although I still don’t know exactly what to do, after reading the book at least I know what NOT to do when communicating with my wife. It also helped to realize I am not alone and that two of the affair types really speak to my situation. Charging neutral really seems to work when we communicate.
• I have only had time to read part of the book, but it was really enlightening to have you say that it was not my fault-even though I do acknowledge my part in this mess.
• That awful pain in my gut is starting to go away.
• I was confronted with how poorly I was handling my situation. It was eye opening. It gave me more understanding to what’s happening/ or not happening in my spouse’s head and why. It gave me more confidence to move forward in life and not dwell on pain.
• I’m still dealing with the discovery day being less than 2 weeks ago. I have the urge to work on personal strategies for personal improvement and trying to help my husband see the silver lining in the ONS – we CAN save our marriage.
• Helped me to understand the necessity of staying strong, positive and patient in working on my marriage.
• I felt like I wasn’t crazy….I didn’t feel like I was a monster anymore..
• So far, I’ve read the introduction and the appendices as suggested. I have learned to change some things I am doing and, surprisingly, found that I am doing things that seemed counterintuitive. Thanks!

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Feature ArticleIt’s Not Always Hot! by Dr. Huizenga – The Infidelity Coach A few days ago two of my coaching calls were with those whom hadthe extramarital affair. Both of them hugely regret the marital infidelity. Not only that, they explicitly described their sexual encounters.

And, their sexual encounters left them cold. Literally!