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The following are testimonials from others dealing with adultery. Dr. Huizenga asked them how his ebook has helped them:

• It helped me identify the type of affair my husband was having and validated my own arrival at becoming "neutral."
• In a time of chaos, it gave facts to help me deal with the situation, understand the type of affair my spouse is having, and useful tools to cope.
• As the faithful spouse, it gave me some insight into the mind of a cheater. It offered some encouragement, and demonstrated that it was not all my fault.
• The description of the seven different types of affairs were very useful. I was able to identify with two of them. That was useful.
• I am so lucky to have found this book. Thank you from the bottom of my very broken heart!!!
• From what I have read so far, you have got these issues excellently dealt with. Your knowledge of these situations is top shelf.
• I felt that I was given more confidence to proceed with my life after reading your book. I found out what kind of affair my wife was having and it gave me hope to know that I can go on with my life and possibly even work it out with her after I have decided how I want my life to proceed. This book was a good motivation tool, and I have read it and re-read it many times already.
• I got insight into what my husband could be thinking. Tools to help me to back off, and help me start thinking on improving myself.
• It gave me an insight into different personality traits and made me think as to the formative reasons why these traits had developed.
• After reading about the different types of and reasons for affairs, I really understood what was going on. Before, I thought it was me...what I'd done wrong or what I hadn't done. I thought I had done something to ruin a great marriage and cause the affair. I lived with a tremendous amount of guilt. After reading your book and considering the events with a new perspective, I was able to stop feeling horrible guilt. I also found out I was doing everything wrong, which was making myself miserable and driving my husband further away. Now, with a new perspective, and insightful guidance, I'm not walking around with a heavy burden of misery ALL the time. Also, it was amazing that when I shifted my focus from constantly being on my husband, to being on myself, even after just a short time, my husband started moving back towards me.
• It gave me ideas and some comfort because I really did not know what to do for the best. My husband and I had been through counseling but he had not intended for it to make any difference to him and there was no one else to give any advice - except personal advice which did not always apply to us - i.e. our personalities and particular situation.

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