What Does Withholding Sex Mean?

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3:02 PM

steve (to All):

YES

3:02 PM

Mike P. (to All):

Yes

3:02 PM

Mari (to All):

yes

3:05 PM

John (to All):

I have asked a question before. my wife has been emotionally shut down for 2.5 year. she has now admitted she does not want to ever have sex with me again, she has had an affair

3:06 PM

John (to All):

will her feeling change?

3:06 PM

John (to All):

we are in counselling together

3:07 PM

John (to All):

she said she had sex with me when she did not want to, yes she is angry and she always said yes when she meant no

3:07 PM

John (to All):

I can not talk tonight

3:07 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

hi my husband had 2 year affair been over for 2 years he said meant nothing but it was 2 years how can I believe it wasn’t serious he says he always wanted to stay with me and family

3:08 PM

Kim (to Organizers):

My husband is having ungoing affair w/ co-worker. We are separated but his primary relationship is now his affair partner. We are connecting but I think he is on the fence. I don’t know what to do as I feel by having contact w/ him am I enabling him to stay in the affair?

3:09 PM

John (to All):

she is angry, no abuse in history

3:09 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

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3:09 PM

John (to All):

thank you, that is helpful

3:10 PM

Alex W (to All):

How to deal with W who moved out 9 months ago, continues an affair )part time) and says she’s never coming back and yet not talking about or filing for divorce?

3:11 PM

Double (to All):

I gave my cheating husband some boundaries and he did not abide by them. I had let him come home on the understanding that he would not cheat again. He went on a vacation and is now cheating and plannig to stay in another country. He doesn’t know that I know. So I want to know how to deal with it.

3:12 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

yes

3:13 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

he was working away and we had lost everything

3:13 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

he said she was opposite to me

3:14 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

he is angry with me coz I didn’t keep house crust enough

3:15 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

yes

3:15 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

yes

3:15 PM

Todd (to All):

what do you do with the her saying it wasn’t intimate or attraction to be able to deal with the affair although it’s been identified as emotional needs being met I still feel there was intimacy for her to the guy she was going to

3:16 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

yes he is that

3:16 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

he cheated on his first wife too

3:16 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

yes when he lost everything

3:16 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

financially

3:17 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

we have lost everything

3:17 PM

Ellen (to All):

I read How to Break Free from the Affair but my husband could be type 2 or type 3 or even type 7. I’m not new to the infidelity game (we are in our ’60’s but I’m trying to determine what the future holds. Travels internationally all the time. I found about cheating six years ago. Just found out it didn’t stop.

3:17 PM

Nat Collard (to All):

is that coincidence 2 x family

3:18 PM

Ellen (to All):

I’m trying to apply the princples in the book but don’t know how

3:19 PM

Ellen (to All):

Yes

3:21 PM

Mary (to All):

There are no predictable patterns to my spouses behavior. My situation is similar to Ellen’s. what is awful is the day to day when he is home, very angry many days. ok other days.

3:31 PM

Double (to All):

Thank you.

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